Did/does your man get to pick his own outfit for the wedding?

Original post by rcheltrvel

Mar 23, 2005 04:40 PM

My fiance and I are having a major dicsussion about two things wedding related and we need to know all opinions:

He say the groom picks the groom's outfit and the groomsmen's outfits for the wedding, I say 90% out your pick your guys outfits for them and their groomsmen's.

He says the man chooses the honeymoon and takes care of it, I say she picks it, he pays for it...LOL (no really they should do it together)?

How much is/was your groom involved in the wedding process?

Thanks!

dita531 Posted: Mar 24, 2005 03:34 PM

Re: Did/does your man get to pick his own outfit for the wedding?

I went with him and I pretty much picked it out but he liked it too so it worked out well.

palebride Posted: Mar 24, 2005 04:53 PM

Re: Did/does your man get to pick his own outfit for the wedding?

Posted by rcheltrvel

I am not saying he has no say. I just think we should try to agree on the decisions and he thinks he should have full choice of both the outfits and the honeymoon without me getting involved at all. If your FH was one of the cheapest people in the world, would you trust him with your honeymoon which only happens once in your life?

I understood your question to mean that you want to do everything and you were annoyed that he wanted to pick out the tuxes...and you didn't trust him with the honeymoon....
Sorry for the misunderstanding.

We did everything together (excpet for my derss). We chose the vendors together and booked the honeymoon together. If you want to help pick the honeymoon, then you should help pick it. It's not up to him to control that part of your wedding celebration!

JCMsGirl05 Posted: Mar 24, 2005 05:36 PM

Re: Did/does your man get to pick his own outfit for the wedding?

FH will be choosing. Doesn't matter to me! I picked mine and the BMs...

rcheltrvel Posted: Mar 24, 2005 11:57 PM

Re: Did/does your man get to pick his own outfit for the wedding?

Thanks everyone for listening and giving all your opinions. Tonight I gave him the outfit he wanted for the guys, let him have his choice although he does not want to admit that I gave him his choice. I seem to not be able to win. But the hotels are still going to be a struggle for the honeymoon. Isn't it supposed to be fun doing all this? Now I know why people that get married a second time never have another big wedding. It is such an ordeal but deep down I am loving every minute of it (I think...LOL)! Thanks again