difficult situation

grkbarbie Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:00 PM

difficult situation

I dont know who reads these posts so im not saying any names...... but what happens when you DONT want some1 to be in your bridal party? some1 is expecting to be in mine, and i reallllllllly dont like her. what should i do?

Reymiliz Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:06 PM

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hmm wow this is diff. u need to be honest .... if ur not u wont be happy remember the most important thing .... PICTURES ,..... if she is in it u will have to live with those pics forever

SparklingBride10 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:07 PM

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I agree with Reymiliz, you don't want to look back x amount of years from now and see her in your pic's if your not comfortable with her being there. Maybe there is a way she could be involved in the wedding like handing out programs or something.

grkbarbie Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:09 PM

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loL! yea she could be involved...sweeping the rice outside the church when every1 is off to the Reception.. i know im horrible..but so is she!

SparklingBride10 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:10 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

loL! yea she could be involved...sweeping the rice outside the church when every1 is off to the Reception.. i know im horrible..but so is she!

hey she can't complain that she's not apart of it. Sweeping is a big deal.

T E R I Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:11 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

loL! yea she could be involved...sweeping the rice outside the church when every1 is off to the Reception.. i know im horrible..but so is she!

If she is that horrible, then you should be upfront with her, especially if she thinks you are going to ask her to be in your wedding party

Reymiliz Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:12 PM

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dont invite the B****.....lol sorry i had some unexpected guest coming in from out of town and have to cut down my list and since ur were atthe top of the cut list ur out ...lmao

grkbarbie Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:18 PM

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oohh i have to explain who she is at our g2g.. u never knwo who reads these boards. fh hates her,too..every1 does arghhhhh

SparklingBride10 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:19 PM

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If that's the case then do you have to invite her? if you guy's don't like her and everyone doesn't like her there doesn't seem to be a reason for her to be there.

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:20 PM

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I think you should just be honest and if she complains, then obviously shes not a real friend or family member and you shouldn't even invite her!!!!! You should have who you want in your bridal party no one should pressure you so screw her lol

Reymiliz Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:21 PM

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is she a relative ...FM ME lol imm so confused y if both of u hate her she even has to come to the wedding

grkbarbie Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:26 PM

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lol not a relative..

FutureMrsF2010 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 04:35 PM

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Tell her you wanted her to be in the BP, but you simply had to cut it down, because the size of it was getting out of hand,

Aristotelina Posted: Apr 06, 2008 07:16 PM

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Honestly, I don't think you have to say anything. In fact, do you even have to invite her?

grkbarbie Posted: Apr 06, 2008 07:32 PM

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lol yea i do.. how is aris by the way?? whats ur name? lol

SummerBride10 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 07:38 PM

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Oh wow I know the feeling. I just don't ask them and hope they get the hint.

Kimmypie143 Posted: Apr 06, 2008 07:53 PM

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lol I have a similar sit. with seperate people lol 2 are family assuming there in my wedding party the other is an annoying should i say 'old school friend' lol she keeps emailing me asking me if shes invited to my wedding i just laugh and tell her no that I havent seen her in a while and Im keeping my list down lol she gets mad but keeps asking me i think shes trying to annoy me until i invite her lol.

just be honest. truth hurts sometimes but if shes as bad as the person driving me crazy just tell her how it is. good luck

Aristotelina Posted: Apr 06, 2008 09:57 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

lol yea i do.. how is aris by the way?? whats ur name? lol

Ugh, that absolutely *****!!

I would definitely NOT say anything to her--she should get the hint. AND if she says anything to you, THEN I would say that you had to really limit your BP to ONLY CLOSE people.

Aris is great--he says hi!!

My name is Penny :)

Christine N Ralph Posted: Apr 06, 2008 10:08 PM

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I would say there there is only a certain amount of people that you could have...and you couldnt go over it...Who is this person?? I know its not a relative, but if its not a relative, then why do you have to be friends with her??