Dilemma

JodiBabe Posted: Feb 24, 2004 07:21 PM

Dilemma

DH & I talked even before we got married about putting an extension onto the house but having heard some construction horror stories we are both a bit worried about it now. I am starting to think that looking for a new house instead might be a better way to get most of what we want in a house.

I own the house free & clear with no mortgage. My daughter wouldn't be happy if I sold because my former fiance bought the house (she considered him her stepdad but he passed away). I also like where we live because it is in a very convienent location for me. Easy access to the bus, 15 minute walk to work.

yabbobay Posted: Feb 24, 2004 07:29 PM

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why not take your DD out for coffee and have a heart to heart with her...maybe she would like moving into a different house when you explain things to her...and she would appreciate that you included her into the decision

JodiBabe Posted: Feb 24, 2004 07:31 PM

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Maybe

yabbobay Posted: Feb 24, 2004 07:34 PM

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what would your decision be if she says no?

would you try to talk her into it...point out the good things (write these down before the conversation)

ask her her concerns. try to look for a house that might benefit her...

maybe do it over ice cream...who can be upset when eating ice cream?

MarcellaBella Posted: Feb 24, 2004 09:38 PM

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OMG.. I wouldn't leave that house!!!! don't be afraid by the horror stories!!! just do your research on great contractors!

curly2003 Posted: Feb 24, 2004 09:43 PM

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Posted by MarcellaBella

OMG.. I wouldn't leave that house!!!! don't be afraid by the horror stories!!! just do your research on great contractors!

i wouldn't either. research Jodi. Good luck!!!!

JodiBabe Posted: Feb 24, 2004 10:32 PM

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Where do I start for that?

well my stomach is in knots & I have a headache so I'm off to bed for now

Fran M Posted: Feb 25, 2004 09:59 AM

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Have any of your friends or neighbors recently had construction done in their homes?Thats always a good place to start.

MarcellaBella Posted: Feb 25, 2004 10:27 AM

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Posted by JodiJohn903

Where do I start for that?

well my stomach is in knots & I have a headache so I'm off to bed for now

HERE!! the best reference is word of mouth!

I think it's silly to go sell your perfectly fine home and go find something else, which would mind you most likely need some fixing up with today's market, and expecially considering that you don't owe any money on your mortgage!! is you crazy woman! lol

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 25, 2004 10:54 AM

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What do you need done?

MarcellaBella Posted: Feb 25, 2004 11:29 AM

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Posted by Ronnie&Theresa

What do you need done?

she needs an extension on her house..

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Feb 25, 2004 11:56 AM

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She needs 2 different types of contractors

One that will do foundation and framing

and once that is done she needs a carpender!!!!!!!!!

CherylBooch Posted: Feb 25, 2004 01:13 PM

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I know of a great contractor in Nassau County (not sure where you are) they did the 2 extensions on my parents house many years apart and their work continued to be terrific. FM me if you're interested.

Jenn P Posted: Feb 25, 2004 01:27 PM

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Jodi, don't sell your house. Chances are whatever you bought would need work anyway. Even if it's big enough for you there're so many things that might not be to your liking-the kitchen, the bathrooms, paint, floor, etc. Look around and research, research, research. You'll find someone.