dilemma

i still havent asked anyone to read at the church..i have29 days left..i was thinking of my cousins to read at the church but do they have to be at the rehearsal? and then the rehearsal dinner? my fmil is paying for the dinner and i feel bad because this is my fh second marriage(in our eyes his first ) i dont want to make her pay for all of these people...i dont know the proper thing to do..then i was thinking if i had to invite my grandparents and my godmother..im so confused..i would hate to have my cousins read at the rehearsal and not invite them to the dinner..i am so close to them and i would love to have them there but i dont want to put any pressure on my fmil...what do i do?

If you are going to ask them to read...I would recommend they go to the rehersal & RD...I'm sure your FMIL will be fine with that. I'm sure in her eyes too this is his first wedding.