Dilemma - need advice

So I was talking to my aunt and she sorta let something slip about my mom planning a shower for me sometime in the next few months. She immediately covered her tracks but I was left wondering whether my mom had talked to my MOH or BMs at all. I'm her only daughter and there hasn't been a wedding in my family in YEARS so it might be that she doesn't know to do that, but I'm not sure.

The question is, do I: a) tell her and risk her being upset that a surprise was ruined, b) tell my MOH to casually ask my mom what she had in mind, only to find out later that MOH was in on it and again, ruin the surprise, or c) say nothing and hope everyone coordinates so nobody's feelings get hurt? Or d) some other answer I haven't thought of yet?

Sorry so long...I'm sure I'm overthinking this!!

if mom is planning a shower, your bridal party will find out before you.... they'll receive invitations!

don't worry, and let everything go on its own. If your BM's didn't know, they'll contact her ASAP and get involved...

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Posted by Jkiesel

hmmm i would prob go with c and see what happens a bit longer.

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same here.

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Posted by bettybcafe

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Posted by Jkiesel

hmmm i would prob go with c and see what happens a bit longer.

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same here.

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I agree...Just let things flow..everything will come out perfect!!

my mom planned my shower..i just made sure to tell my sister(MOH) to send an email out to the rest of the BMs to just have them save the date.. but my mom took care of it all.. i think its okay to casually mention something either to your mom or your MOH that you just want to make sure everyones around for the date...

as far as the planning i'm sure if your moms doing it it will be beautiful!!