dilemma... what should i do

daaa. i had a friend i used to hang out quite a lot and thought we were pretty close. i told him i was getting married yesterday and asked for his address.. but he was so outright cold about it. i mean i have probably called about 20/30 friends and they were all really happy for me and he didn't even say congrats. am i thinking too much here???

now i'm pissed at how cold he was towards the most important day of my life and didn't even want to invite him! but i already asked for his address so should i send out an invitation nonetheless??

I'd send him an invite if you already asked for the address..you can't read people's minds, so unless you ask him about his unusual response you won't know if he was just having a bad day or had something stressful on his mind.

You could always say, 'Was everything ok the other day? You didn't sound like yourself'....just to see if he says anything and leave it open in case he had a reaction he wanted to then talk about. Or you could just let it go and invite him.

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Posted by Julesg1230

I'd send him an invite if you already asked for the address..you can't read people's minds, so unless you ask him about his unusual response you won't know if he was just having a bad day or had something stressful on his mind.

You could always say, 'Was everything ok the other day? You didn't sound like yourself'....just to see if he says anything and leave it open in case he had a reaction he wanted to then talk about. Or you could just let it go and invite him.

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yeah you are right. it could totally be his personal reason..i'm probably just over reacting....I'll send him an invite. if he really doesn't care, he won't show up anyways..

I'm assuming your friend is a guy based off of you saying 'he'.

Once I got engaged MOST of my guy friends became a little stand off-ish. They said it's different now that I'm engaged lol.