DILEMMA...NEED ADVICE

me and FH are in disagreement about where to stay the night of the wedding. We are providing a hotel for OOT guests and friends, which is where I would also like to go back to and get a room at. However, FH wants to go home to our new apartment. What do you think I should do???

I think I just dont want the night to end and I want to continue some festivities after the wedding at the hotel lounge even if its just for a little bit bc Im sure we will be exhausted. Should I give in to what he wants??? What is everyone else doing or what would you do???

TIA girls!!!

im stayin in a hotel bc i live too far from the RH.
will it be your first nite in the new apartment? is there a reason he doesnt want to stay in the hotel?

we live 15mins from the RH
we both decided to stay at the hotel
we want to keep the party going!!!

also, we might want to host a brunch the next day.

How about a compromise? Ask a friend that's staying at the hotel to open it up their room as the after-party location. Then you two can go to the hotel, party a little, then go home to the new apt.

I would want to stay in the hotel. IDK a part of me feel like it is just more celebratory than going home. He wants to go back to the apt, but you will be going back there everynight. (atleast until you move)...

I would convince him by telling him it would be more special to go back another night to have another thing to celebrate on a different day.

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Posted by soontobecruz

I would want to stay in the hotel. IDK a part of me feel like it is just more celebratory than going home. He wants to go back to the apt, but you will be going back there everynight. (atleast until you move)...

I would convince him by telling him it would be more special to go back another night to have another thing to celebrate on a different day.

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ITA

we are going to stay at the hotel, but not to party since our wedding ends at 1am. We just want to make it special and no go home to a bed we have already broken in...if u know what i mean...

We will probably stay in a hotel, but mostly because we live together already, so our house isn't anything insanely special anymore. Besides, I also may want to party on a little more afterwards.

However, FH said that we should just go home b/c we're going to be so exhausted so we're just going to pass out anyway

We are staying at a Hotel in N.Y.C. away from everyone & everything. After the party with all our family & friends we want ALONE TIME just the two of us!

I think it kinda depends on what time your reception ends. If it's a Friday or Saturday night and it ends at 11pm, then you will probably have guests who want to party a bit more. But if it's a Sunday night at 10 or 11pm, then many of your guests probably won't want to party, even if they have rooms at the hotel.

DH and I chose to stay at a hotel near our RH because we don't have our own 'first' place together yet...if we did, we probably wouldn't have stayed at the hotel.

If you think there would be other guests there at the hotel that night and the next morning for brunch, etc then I'd vote for the hotel..

..we had only 1other couple in the hotel with us and nothing was going on, and we were all SOOOO tired that I would have preferred to save the $160 and stayed our first night in our new home.

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Posted by Lsorrent

We will probably stay in a hotel, but mostly because we live together already, so our house isn't anything insanely special anymore. Besides, I also may want to party on a little more afterwards.

However, FH said that we should just go home b/c we're going to be so exhausted so we're just going to pass out anyway

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pass out


i hope not

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Posted by Rosalind_75

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Posted by Lsorrent

We will probably stay in a hotel, but mostly because we live together already, so our house isn't anything insanely special anymore. Besides, I also may want to party on a little more afterwards.

However, FH said that we should just go home b/c we're going to be so exhausted so we're just going to pass out anyway

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pass out


i hope not

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Yea, go figure. I feel like that will be the ONE time I DON'T say 'I'm too tired!'