that you are a changed person during the planning of your wedding? Really, though...being completely honest. B/c I still have 2 months left and I feel that all my stress is about to come. I will completely admit when I am a bi*ch or very annoying but I don't feel like i've gotten to that point yet. I feel like it's just an easy target for anyone to blame any slight mood swing I have on the wedding planning. But i really don't feel like I'm bridezilla yet! Well jeez, now I probably do after that vent LOL
I just want some honest opinions, b/c i think i'm starting to believe i'm crazy.....thanks girls
cateydee
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ur not crazy, my inner bridezilla definitely came out in the past month...
mosh424
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you aren't crazy, once june 1st came i became an animal. i was nasty to everyone and had a short temper. i worked 2 years on my wedding and i wanted everything perfect!
don't worry it is totally normal
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I just said to my FH last night. . . . That I have not freaked out yet, but I know it is coming!
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FH and I had this same conversation the other night putting together our inviations. He said you havent become a bridzilla yet. you havnt flipped out or anything, i said just wait it might happen. i feel like that shower makes all brides out to be crazy. i might get crazy at the 2 month mark and thats bc its getting close and also thats the dead line i gave my mom and FMIL to get dresses(yes thats right they still dont have a dress)
so dont worry your not the only one.
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I am started to get stressed which leaves me little patience for anything else so I definitely have a shorter fuse. The only person who has called me a bridezilla so far is my son! That was because he was sick of shopping for wedding stuff and just wanted to go home and play video games!
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Date Twin! I completely understand how you will! I'm sensitive to begin with and now the littlest thing can make me upset. Something that normally won't bother me, makes me crazy now. Lack of common sense from my BP is almost driving me over the edge also.
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Oh girls thank you so much for your help!
So many small things are coming up and I'm like why Didn't we elope again??? ; )oh, well...enough of my nonsense, thank you for hearing me out!
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I am super mega B1itchface when it comes to dealing with FH's family. I have been pretty good so far, but every time they mess something up or complain about something wedding related...I LOSE IT! I have a feeling I will snap off like 3 times on the morning of if his family doesn't get their a$$es in gear!
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I believe the act of FH and I getting engaged and starting to announce wedding plans let FH's family start acting like nuts.
One of his aunts on only the 2nd time I met her... after I had already stated that we had picked our flower girl and ring bearers ( the kids I take care of... am with every day all day and have been for 2 years, are like my own children ) ... straight out said 'Well I know my daughters would've liked for you to ask them.'
I was just like Only met you once before and you want me to ask your kids to be a part of our wedding? And you have the balls to suggest this?
Seriously?
I've been told 'Well here in Long Island you can't do that.' 'No, this is Long Island. You have to...'
And I'm like ... I will do whatver I want. I'm paying for this and the reception isn't even HERE. It's across the country. I will fukking put up plastic tablecloths and streamers if I want to and think it will annoy you enough.
I mean a million other things... but... whatever.
I don't think I've changed. But people have shown their true colors ... and I'm starting to lose my tolerance for BS. (Of which I usually have zero but allocated a certain amount for the outlaws... but its wearing very thing.)
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lol me too! im starting to panic and im a year away
wenR
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I think it started this morning...(or maybe just my period) I could'nt stop crying on my way to work. Every song on the radio sounds like the perfect wedding song. Oh boy!
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Not yet but with only 32 days left, my inner bridezilla might start to show soon
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oh yes!! lol i used to be a nice sweet girl before wedding.... i used to laugh at the bridzellas tv show and now im like, omg I SOO understand! lol i had a lot of drama from day one including canceling my destination wedding because FHs family decided they didnt want to go last min and told us in the rsvp card! including his father and sister. and then evil future sis in law moving her mother in with us!!! and my maid of honor planned my bach party just last week! for two days before wedding and didnt plan on paying for me at all! and i asked the church if i can walk down the aisle to shes got a way about her by billy joel (my dads friend was gonna sing an accustic verson with guitar) and they said NO!!!! only religious songs which i can understand but HERE COMES THE BRIDE IS NOT A RELIGIOUS SONG!!!! thats when my true bridezilla snapped. i really wanted to suprise him with it because he always said that song makes him think of me and the lyrics are beautiful.....i just dont understand the church at all. Ok i wrote way too much than i planned! thats my vent as a BRIDEZILLA!!!
