do i have the right to be annoyed...?

ok- so maybe its me because i don't feel well, am home sick from work and have been so stressed with work and grad school....however...

I sent my photographer a confirmation email on 8/12/13 to confirm my e-shoot for 9/26/13. So approximately 45 days. Now I did that because I go to graduate school at night and work full time so I wanted to be sure I took the day off to get my hair done, nails, make up etc and I'm stressed at work as it is! So anyway, I just get an email today from my photographer asking if I can change the date of my e-shoot to this coming monday 9/23 instead of 9/26. Um- NO! I work 12 hours on Mondays so I can leave early the days I have class, I have a test tuesday, and I won't have time to get my nails done, hair cut, and not for nothing, but I scheduled a hair and make up appointment if they can't accommodate me I would be SOL. The reason they gave is another bride's wedding is before mine and she didn't schedule her e-shoot.....um like thats not my problem. I scheduled this back in April for September and both FH and I took the day off from work as it is!!!! what the heck!!! I sent a nice email saying thats not possible and we need to keep our 9/26 appointment.


Like for real- do I have the right to be furious by this? I mean I'm flexible and accommodating and had I been given notice maybe a month ago- I would have gladly changed but you cannot be serious to send me that email on a friday afternoon and expect me to jump and change to 3 days from now! Really!!?!?!?!?!?

good god i'm annoyed!

Yes, you have every right to be annoyed. A bride getting married before you is NOT your problem and it's asinine for them to think that's ok.

It is shocking how many vendors don't understand that brides have jobs. I have been looked at like I have 5 heads when I say weekdays don't work and that its difficult to leave early. I hate people, I'm with you.