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do i invite ...?

AwaitingAugust Posted:

do i invite ...?

do i invite my dad's wife to my shower? I'm not close with her at all but i don't want to offend anyone

oh, and ps: it wouldn't be awkward between her and my mom so that's not an issue.

thanks everyone!
AdriandSteve Posted:

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I think you have to. Esp. if your dad is married to her. Would you invite another guest without their spouse even if you never me the spouse?

I think it's the same.

HTH!
halfbaked Posted:

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It'd be very nice if you invited her! Especially since there's no conflict.

jackieee Posted:

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def invite

MR1223 Posted:

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you should invite her. she's family and your step-mom.

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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she'll prob never know that i had a shower if i don't tell her ... so she won't be upset about missing it

oh well, i have no problem with her so whatever
jmgoncal Posted:

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If there's no problem b/w your mom and her -then absolutely invite her.

StellaStar13 Posted:

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yeah, I think its one of those situations where its better to invite her than deal w/the black lash.

AngnShaun Posted:

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i pretty much agree with everyone else... unless there is some sort of bad situation between the two of you then you should invite her

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

i pretty much agree with everyone else... unless there is some sort of bad situation between the two of you then you should invite her



i can't say she's my favorite person in the world ... but i don't have anything against her either (she's just a diff person than i am)
Jna2010 Posted:

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yes i would

BriansWifey Posted:

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i would definitely invite her. especially if it wouldnt be akward between ur mom and her.
if i was in her shoes and i didnt get invited to the shower i would be upset...

LovinMichael44 Posted:

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Yeah I would definitely invite her, especially if there are no conflicts between any one...seems like the right thing to do cause I'm sure she would be your dads guest
SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted:

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I would

Ncarlo Posted:

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invite her bc its the right thing to do- but she prob WONT come, because it will be your mom and all your moms friends and all of you and your friends and then her?? she will feel totally akward!

SoontobeGallagher Posted:

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I voted yes. It's his wife. It was his girlfriend then maybe not.

mosh424 Posted:

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no doubt aout it invite her

TraceySLP1 Posted:

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yes

ourwedding9510 Posted:

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Yes i would DEF invite her. I agree with everyone else. Even if she wouldn't be upset, your dad might.

Future Mrs H Posted:

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yes I agree with everyone- she is your step-mom and she is family

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