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Do i pay?

sami Posted:

Do i pay?

I have 2 MOH someone told me i should have paid for their dresses.. I have never heard of that now i feel like a jerk if they were waiting for me to pay for them..

MrsR72806 Posted:

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are you planning on getting them gifts? I would only pay for their dresses if your not buying them anything else.

Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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I was a MOH 4 times and never had a dress bought for me
ewickens Posted:

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Posted by SoontobeMrsR72806

are you planning on getting them gifts? I would only pay for their dresses if your not buying them anything else.



I agree. The bride is not expected to pay for the dresses - only if you are not planning on buying them any other gifts (jewelry, etc).
sami Posted:

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I will most def. be getting them gifts. Thanks for your relpys

megsm3 Posted:

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that is asking a lot of you - by no means should they be expecting to have their dresses paid for

Goldi1021 Posted:

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I will be very honest with you. Not until I have come on LIW have I EVER heard of paying for a BM dress - not even as a gift. My feeling is that if someone accepts the HONOR of being asked to be in a bridal party, then they need to be made aware of the expense and time commitment it takes to fulfill that honor. If they cant handle either one, then they should graciously decline. Unless that BP member is a minor and has no source of income, then nobody should expect a dress to be paid for.

kmkelly Posted:

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I've never heard of it either. Not even as a gift.

sarahthegreat Posted:

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i agree with leslie. and its funny b/c my fh thought we were supposted to pay for the dresses and tuxes. i set him straight very quickly

julybride06 Posted:

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I have never heard of that. Maybe offere to pay for hair and/or make-up..but only if your not getting them anything else.

sunshine1813 Posted:

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I have never heard of this before. Giving them a gift is one thing but I don't think we need to pay for their dresses.

N.Y.bride Posted:

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I think most people dont pay for their BMs dresses.

DUCKS2001 Posted:

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no i never heard of that just get them a gift

BRod-Cheng Posted:

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I've been a MOH twice and each time I bought my own dress. Never heard of a bride paying for any of the bridal party dresses.

Blu-ize Posted:

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that's whack..

My cousin in TX is paying for her kids groomsmen's tuxes..I think that's just silly.
hsacks23r Posted:

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No you dont have to pay for them, but if you want that to be there gift then you can do that instead for jewlery

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