Do I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
melissas28
Posted:
Member since
Do I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
Basically, I have some family members who are not going to make it to the wedding and they have told me that already. The primary reason is because I am having an adult only reception. Do I still send them Save The Dates? Do I send them invites? Especially becaus our invite list got bigger and I am running low on invites.....
KSquared
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
Even though they mentioned not coming, I still think you should send them invites. You never know, they might change their minds. I just know I would feel bad not sending family members invites, you ya gotta do whatever works best for your situation.
nmagel
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
don't send them STD's but I would send the invite.
alison1daland
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
I would send everything... You can't formally, oficially say no if you haven't formally, oficially been invited, right?
thelastresort
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
Posted by nmagel
don't send them STD's but I would send the invite.
I agree
Princess Cut Bride
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
Posted by alison1daland
I would send everything... You can't formally, oficially say no if you haven't formally, oficially been invited, right?
It also depends on your family. Out of respect I would send both. You will do your part by sending the STD and invite and then it's up to them.
nifheim
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
What my family does is when the STD is sent out and we know for a fact we are not coming we then formally tell the person we are sorry but can't make it and we realize you might have other people you wish to invite please know you do not need to send us a invitation.
I mean think of it.. your sending a save the date.. if you do not intend to save the date why not tell the person and save the time and money to send a invite? I think it is rude otherwise to know your not going and not inform the people.
I say std, then when they tell you officially not coming no invite.
jessruth9
Posted:
Member since
Re: So I send STD and invites to ppl who already said no?
me too - some people like invites as momentos even if they don't attend
