Ok heres the deal... We got enaged almost a year ago and booked in January and have told everyone the date. We are having a smaller sized wedding about 120-130. So we are not expecting the typical 20% of no's like everyone says b/c we are not inviting every person we have ever met if you knwo what i'm saying. If you invited its b/c your close. I think if we were gonna do it we should have already and my FH says now e should for the some people, who may make plans and may have forgotten the date( which in this case is only a handful). What do you think?