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Do people really do this??

MattsBride Posted:

Do people really do this??

I definitely DO NOT want people throwing rice or birdseed at me (I was a BM last year and the birdseed was all suck in my hair and in my bra...when I got undressed at night there was birdseed all over). I am buying the bubbles for people to blow at us after the ceremony. Well, my mother and sister know I don't want anything thrown at me and they told me that people might bring their own. I said just tell everyone I don't want it and not to do it. Do people really bring their own rice to throw at you or are they making this up??

PrincessRose Posted:

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Bring their own????? Who has time?

No, I don't think that people will bring their own, they're expecting you to provide it.
BklynItaliana Posted:

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ive never heard of people bringing their own bird seed to a wedding but i have seen people throw pennies so be careful..
also some churches don't let you use rice or bird seed.. so check with your church
BernandRob Posted:

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I think it's funny that they would even bother I have never heard of anyone bringing their own.
MattsBride Posted:

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I thought it was crazy too. I thought they were teasing me, but they seem so serious about it. Could it be an Italian thing? We have a big Italian family. I'm so freaked out about this silly thing!!
MJDoc12 Posted:

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omg--i've never known anyone to bring their own!! i hope your mom & sis didn't hint to ppl to bring their own since you weren't supplying it! LOL maybe that's why they said that!

i truly don't think that will happen. you should be okay!
Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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hahaha i have never heard this or seen it and have been to lots of weddings. I wouldn't worry.

Soon2BeMrsD Posted:

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hmm i never heard of that and im from a bigi italian family, i wouldnt worry esp if u have the bubbles they will use that,

SOON TO BE MRS. B Posted:

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i've never heard of anyone bringing their own but I am glad you posted about teh birdseed getting stuck in your hair...i was thinking fo doing that but def not now....bubbles are a good idea, prob woudl look very cool in pics too...

MattsBride Posted:

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Posted by SOON TO BE MRS. B

i've never heard of anyone bringing their own but I am glad you posted about teh birdseed getting stuck in your hair...i was thinking fo doing that but def not now....bubbles are a good idea, prob woudl look very cool in pics too...



Yeah, I am very against having birdseed stuck in my hair all day! I think the bubbles will look pretty in pics too.
m&m Posted:

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I never heard of it either - however, also be careful with the bubbles - I had a silk dress on for FH's cousin's wedding, and the soap stained the dress right down the front when I got hit with a bubble.

Jen2999 Posted:

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Thats why Im doing ribbon wands instead of getting something thrown at me. They look just as pretty and dont require much effort from the guests.

MattsBride Posted:

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Posted by m&m

I never heard of it either - however, also be careful with the bubbles - I had a silk dress on for FH's cousin's wedding, and the soap stained the dress right down the front when I got hit with a bubble.



OMG I never thought of that!
103005FallBride Posted:

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Your family is pulling a fast one on ya!

I didn't like the idea of something thrown at us either. We opted for nada.
MattsBride Posted:

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Posted by 103005FallBride

Your family is pulling a fast one on ya!

I didn't like the idea of something thrown at us either. We opted for nada.



I hope so because I would be upset if anyone actually did it!
Mayflower Posted:

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Posted by m&m

I never heard of it either - however, also be careful with the bubbles - I had a silk dress on for FH's cousin's wedding, and the soap stained the dress right down the front when I got hit with a bubble.



i've heard about the bubbles staining dresses too! what about providing wands instead?
frosty Posted:

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We didn't do bubbles or have anything thrown at us. And no one 'brought their own.'

smurray Posted:

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I've heard of it done, but have never heard of people bringing their own w/ them.

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