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MrsC2b Posted:

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Do u invite someone to ur wedding who came to ur engagement party and who u would like to have at ur wedding... if u found out she gave out her wedding invitations about 3 weeks ago and u were not invited ?

stephanielyse Posted:

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Yes. You want her at your wedding, you invite her. Sorry she didn't invite you to hers, maybe she's having a smaller affair or something. Regardless of her reason, you shouldn't not invite her if you want her to come, plus you invited her to your e-party, so you shouldn't not invite her for that reason, too.

Gin-Char 104 Posted:

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WHAT!!! holy moly......ok i feel like if you don't then it will look obvious you are pissed...is this the message you want to send? if it is go for it.....do you know why your not invited? dude that is messed up unless they are only having 50 pp at their wedding!

MrsC2b Posted:

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Posted by stephanielyse

Yes. You want her at your wedding, you invite her. Sorry she didn't invite you to hers, maybe she's having a smaller affair or something. Regardless of her reason, you shouldn't not invite her if you want her to come, plus you invited her to your e-party, so you shouldn't not invite her for that reason, too.

.. she is having a pretty big wedding
MrsC2b Posted:

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Posted by Montegin05

WHAT!!! holy moly......ok i feel like if you don't then it will look obvious you are pissed...is this the message you want to send? if it is go for it.....do you know why your not invited? dude that is messed up unless they are only having 50 pp at their wedding!

.. no she is have a big wedding.. and i kinda do want to invite her to mine even thou im not invited to hers i guess to show her that i do have class... (I think that sounds right)
cjb88 Posted:

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if she came to your e-party, then yes invite her...

mrsh2b Posted:

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Yes. One, you want her at your wedding and Two, she already came to your engagement party. IMO, its really tacky not to invite someone to your wedding who was invited to your engagement party (unless some really Loooooong period of time elapsed b/w the 2 and you don't speak anymore). Maybe she just had to keep her guest list down to a minimum. Try not to take it personally.

CLMon7906 Posted:

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i'm just a little petty, so probably not. depends on how close i consider her....FH has a friend who i don't consider important at all...i think we can live without her and i'm quite alright that the B list went out and she still didn't make the cut b/c she hasn't given us her address....i actually hope she takes the hint and doesn't invite us to her Nov. wedding!

Vicky423 Posted:

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Yes.... I know I wouldn't want to do it either, but etiquette wise, you should invite her.

bride2b24 Posted:

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hmmm thats strange esp since she is having a big wedding.....but technically you are supposed to invite her since she was at your eparty ....but i def would be offended

Tracy&Brian Posted:

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no, screw her. she sounds like she isnt a very good friend. F-her.

N.Y.bride Posted:

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I agree, you should. Maybe she couldnt afford to invite you. I really just invited family and 2 friends and that was about 150 people!

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