ok so one of the girls in my bridal party has been with her bf for like 6 or 7 years and they just planned and unexpected trip to fl, they left wed....long story short, she just got engaged like an hour ago, and sent everyone a text except me and FH, we had to hear it from everyone else....sooo i think its kinda rude that she didnt even text or call to tell me i mean im sure she is in her glory becuase she has been waiting so long for it, but she texted everyone but us...what the hell
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I would be a little hurt. She is obviously close to you since she is one of your bm's I wonder why she didn't call you?
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I would be a little confused too
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yea i'd be pretty offended if one of my best friends/BMs got engaged and didnt bother telling me. I'd def call them out on it though and just be like 'umm thanks for letting me know'
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yea.. i think its messed up
cds58019
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Is there a chance it didn't go through? That is kinda weird that she wouldn't send it to you.
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I dont think you should be offended by it, i'm sure there are SO MANY people to call. I know when FH proposed to me I was just a basket case, i'm sure she didn' tmean anything bad by it at all.
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hmmm...maybe she thought you might get mad? like shes stealing your thunder or something...
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yeah after my moh and fh called to tell me,......he found out cause his cuz called him to tell him.......i texted my bm and was like congrats girl...even tho i had to hear it from everyone else lol....but im just kind of hurt...idk....my mom and everyone around my whole wedding planning has kept saying that she was so jealous of me cause i was getting married and all but come on now grow up....idk i think im just so pissed off about that i cant even think straight lol
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interesting...i wonder why? that seems strange
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I dont think you should be offended by it, i'm sure there are SO MANY people to call. I know when FH proposed to me I was just a basket case, i'm sure she didn' tmean anything bad by it at all.
yeah thats what i was thinking but then my MOH was like did u tell danielle we have been waiting for this and she was like yeah i texted her and mike....no she didnt we didnt get any texts lol
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That is strange. Are you sure it was done on purpose?
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That is strange. Are you sure it was done on purpose?
am i sure she did it on purpose or didnt do it on purpose? honestly i have no idea i am just hurt i guess cause i figured since we are such close friends and she is in the bridal party and all that she would call me....i tecxted and caled her to say congrats but no answer?!?!? o well
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I dont think you should be offended by it, i'm sure there are SO MANY people to call. I know when FH proposed to me I was just a basket case, i'm sure she didn' tmean anything bad by it at all.
yeah thats what i was thinking but then my MOH was like did u tell danielle we have been waiting for this and she was like yeah i texted her and mike....no she didnt we didnt get any texts lol
She may have actually thought she texted you. I had texts that i thought went to someone but found out for whatever reason (wrong typing on my part, my service provider, theirs, etc)
So you never know.
She may also be getting calls from everyone & chatting on the phone with family. So maybe it isn't meant to be rude
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maybe the text to you never went through? or she accidentally skipped your name??? it just sounds odd to me, i text her and be like congrats i heard you got engaged, how come you didnt tell me??? kind of innocently lol
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I dont think you should be offended by it, i'm sure there are SO MANY people to call. I know when FH proposed to me I was just a basket case, i'm sure she didn' tmean anything bad by it at all.
yeah thats what i was thinking but then my MOH was like did u tell danielle we have been waiting for this and she was like yeah i texted her and mike....no she didnt we didnt get any texts lol
She may have actually thought she texted you. I had texts that i thought went to someone but found out for whatever reason (wrong typing on my part, my service provider, theirs, etc)
So you never know
i was just going to say this. i hope that's what happened, b/c otherwise that's messed up!!
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Im thinking its possible the text didn't go through If you were not texted then I would also be annoyed and it wouldl seem she was jealous the whole time
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I dont think you should be offended by it, i'm sure there are SO MANY people to call. I know when FH proposed to me I was just a basket case, i'm sure she didn' tmean anything bad by it at all.
yeah thats what i was thinking but then my MOH was like did u tell danielle we have been waiting for this and she was like yeah i texted her and mike....no she didnt we didnt get any texts lol
She may have actually thought she texted you. I had texts that i thought went to someone but found out for whatever reason (wrong typing on my part, my service provider, theirs, etc)
So you never know
i was just going to say this. i hope that's what happened, b/c otherwise that's messed up!!
Yeah I remember I was asking a friend once if you got my text with a whole bunch of info & she said no!. 1 friend in particular never seems to get my picture texts also (though she has a picture phone with service for it)
technology is not fool proof. See how she is when you see her!
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I would defintiely feel hurt.
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Maybe she wants to tell you in person>>?I did that!
