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do you and FH argue?

Original post by SeaMaiden

i was just thinking about how some couple say that they have never had an argument with their FH ever. Can any of you honestly say this? i cant imagine how it could be possible to never ever have a disagreement but i wouldnt mind being proven wrong!

Butterfly123 Posted:

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We've had some heated arguments! If you saw my bedroom door, you'd believe it. (all the slamming has it hanging off the hinges) We argue over stupid stuff. And we bicker a lot but we dont stay mad for over and hour or so lol. Hey after 6 years together, never having an argument would be kind of weird.

bemyyoko Posted:

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we argue. but we both have hot tempers he's italian and i'm irish... it's in our blood
we never EVER go to bed angry with eachother. i mean, we might not be feeling good or perfect about the other, but we don't go to bed without making sure we're okay.

it's the best advice i was ever given.
Ilovebriani Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

you guys are so awesome

i think i have anger management issues - i have screamed at FH at the top of my lungs like a million times - i have even punched him LOL



i am right there with you, lol! if something is bothering me, i am sure to make it known. I am just that type of person. I know, it's bad but sometimes i egg him on on purpose....when i'm not even mad. I just like to push his buttons...but he catches on so it usually dosnt turn into a huge thing. We have been together for so long and living together for over 2 years, of course we are going to have or differences. But everyone once in a while i worry that our landlord things i am a raging B*tch b/c i am the loud one, lol. FH and i joke about it all the time, although he insists that they prob hear him too, lol.
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by SeaMaiden

i was just thinking about how some couple say that they have never had an argument with their FH ever. Can any of you honestly say this? i cant imagine how it could be possible to never ever have a disagreement but i wouldnt mind being proven wrong!



My ex and I really never argued and it wasn't a good thing. There were so many pent up feelings that finally showed their face in the form of me meeting another guy and moving on.
ZCHM08 Posted:

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we have our 'moments' but we make up and move on rather quickly

wo0shply Posted:

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FH and I argue all the time over little things but after 2 mins we make up and are more conscious of each other's feelings. Are we weird?

MikeandJess Posted:

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yea we fight. Not all the time but I am stubborn and I don't let things go easily so when we do fight it gets ugly!

MyLobster Posted:

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We only argue when he's been drinking. I can't have a convo with him when he's drunk...luckily it's not that often

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

you guys are so awesome

i think i have anger management issues - i have screamed at FH at the top of my lungs like a million times - i have even punched him LOL



Are you my twin?!?! I have screamed at FH1000's of times. He tries to deal with me cuz I get out of control and instead of getting all crazy back, he'll say what he has to say in a regulated tone... Then if I'm still mad (which I usually am) he tries to be funny with me and make me laugh (which he always succeeds in doing). And I did 'beat up' on him today, got my anger out, but it was like half serious... Now if I was to punch him in the face, that would be a diff story. I wrestle him, let out my frustrations, and then he pins me and I lose...
Mizzdimple Posted:

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of course....you need to....

redvelvet Posted:

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we don't have knock down drag out fights. we have disagreements but he always makes me laugh at the end of the disagreement i hate it when that happens!
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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I think you have to fight/argue sometimes....

We don't really fight that much, but, when we do, I can get really bad...I just say whatever is on my mind, and I don't care!

I don't think we've really had a big fight since becoming engaged.... I guess because I'm not a bridezilla, YET!!
futuremrsfab Posted:

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ummm we definately can not say that! We are two very different people and we argue--- its a healthy part of any relationship and as long as it doesnt get out of hand its fine and is not something to worry about.

DD628 Posted:

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we get into lil tiffs but nothing too major.
I think I walked away once...and that was last year. But every now and again we yell at each other...we are both hot headed gemini's. But when we get into a big argument...We start to cry and we apologize and then its over!

Love...Isn't it grand?

jgl Posted:

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FH and I dont have big arguements. I get mad at him and he gets mad at me, it doesnt happen often though and it is always over something silly. And its over in 10 minutes one of cracks a joke and thats it. We have never had a full blown out arguement. In fact, its VERY rare that FH even gets loud, he just listens ( but that is the psychologist in him hehe) In 8 years we have never broken up or not spoken to each other. I like to think that FH and I are really good at communicating with each other, we tell each other how we feel and handle it.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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yes, yes, and yes!

MyLobster Posted:

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Posted by redvelvet

we don't have knock down drag out fights. we have disagreements but he always makes me laugh at the end of the disagreement i hate it when that happens!



Mine too! I hate when we have an argument and he makes me laugh...I try to stay a hard @ss but then he cracks me! D@mn him!
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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We bicker all the time... it just happens when you live with someone.

FH is the one who gets mad more often though... I usually step away and within an hour he's coming around apologizing. He used to be so much worse, flying off the handle at any little thing, but he's getting so much better. He's way more moody than I am so it doesn't take much with him.

in 4 years we've only had one knock-down, drag-out, you're sleeping on the couch and I'm locking the bedroom door kind of fight. It lasted 2 days. I'm not a screamer, but hooooooooly cow! That's all I can say!!
Christys0925 Posted:

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Fh have been together 3 yrs and have live together for all of that but about 2 weeks. We have never fought. It's so weird, we don;t always agree on everything. So we just agree to disagree and move on.

Jesses Girl Posted:

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nah we have had some really heated arguments...but those are rare...and about important things...we bicker sometimes and it passes in 5 minutes.

but not a lot

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