Do you ever feel like some people in your life are just NEGATIVE all of the time?
BriBri529
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Do you ever feel like some people in your life are just NEGATIVE all of the time?
I am so aggravated! Everything I do that involves $ I get negative vibes about. 'Oh you are wasting money on this big wedding' 'I think you are just wasting money if you are going to lease a mini SUV, you should just buy out the lease on your car.: I feel like everything that I want to do and am excited about I have to be brought all the way down about. I am so pissed . . .
junie20002
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You know what I am feeling the same way .. I hate to say this if they are not coughing up the money then they should stay nice and quiet.... I am in the verge of just killing any one that talks about how much money we spend, it is just so annoying, just do what makes YOU happy not everyone else
ravens_bride
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I hate it when people do that!!! I politely say I'm sorry you feel that way because this is what makes me happy. You should see the looks they give me!
February05
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my favorite way to respond to that is:
'awwww that's so cute that you thought i wanted your opinions' if you aint coughin up the cash, you shouldnt be coughin up the comments.
i'm sorry people s*ck, Bri some people think that just b/c they cant have things like that, that no one else should be able to
dm24angel
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You are NOT alone!!!!!
My FSIL said to me 6 times in one conversation last night how I should have had a small wedding and gotten a house with the money. SHE had a big wedding, so she deserved it but I didnt?
FMIL is not the happiest either with our decisions.
I HATE IT!
HAng in their girl..it will be over soon enough!
Dont let anyone say anything about YOUR decisions!
BriBri529
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I love my dad, but he can be such a buzz kill
dm24angel
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if you aint coughin up the cash, you shouldnt be coughin up the comments.
I MUST use that next time! PERFECT come back!
akaMrsT
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Posted by neeniebean86
'awwww that's so cute that you thought i wanted your opinions'
This is great!!!! I may use it.
Nicoley4257
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OMG I am in the same situation as you! We are going through the same bull s%$! it seems like. No only with money and people always putting in their two cents about 'save your money and have a small wedding' but it seems like we are going through the same situation with the cars. My lease was up on my honda and I really wanted a SUV. Well i got hell from all my family saying not to get one...to expensive...just pay off your lease and buy it out blah blah blah. Well they can all kiss my butt cause I got my SUV all by myself and i feel so much better that I stuck with my gut and not gotten another tiny car because I feel really safe in the SUV. Don't worry, don't listen to them. Do want you want!! Have that big wedding...get that SUV!! Good luck with everything!
Bunnymonkey
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I call these people 'suckers' (insert sucking sound here) and I do everything to avoid them and cut them out of my life.
They are everywhere and in every situation - PROTECT YOURSELF!!
Bebalina
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Posted by dm24angel
My FSIL said to me 6 times in one conversation last night how I should have had a small wedding and gotten a house with the money. SHE had a big wedding, so she deserved it but I didnt?
ohhhh this one kills me when ppl who have had the big weddings tell me this!!! oh i hate that
LuvMyMichael
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uh.....YEAH! I can't even stand the negativity.....ya know some people have it so much worse no matter what. I really can't take it when people are negative. It just has a way of bringing ya down
halfpintny
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Yes mom and I seem to be arguing over every little detail. Everytime I mention an idea she seems to have an equally negative opinion...according to her there should only be 50's music at the wedding and lots of slow dancing. I think I'm going to have my BMs tie her up and drag her to a rap concert and leave her there.
Marisa M
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Everyone who has 'done it' already has an opinion about how and why you should or should not do it the opposite way. - Maybe you regret having a big wedding, maybe you regret leasing your SUV - MAYBE I WILL TOO.......But hey, it's MY mistake to make !!
