do you feel bad when...

buggiegirl Posted: Apr 27, 2005 09:46 PM

do you feel bad when...

you DON'T book with someone?

we met with a really sweet videographer- and her price was great- but then we met with another whose work we LOVED...I feel bad for the 1st girl

am I a sucker or what?

STUF04 Posted: Apr 27, 2005 09:48 PM

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I am the same way. I feel bad that I wasted someones time after all there hard work. I am sucker too!!

cindyandkevin Posted: Apr 27, 2005 09:49 PM

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Sometimes I feel bad when the people are really nice and helpful!! It sounds silly but it's hard to politely decline when they contact you asking if you've booked something yet. Of course, I'm sure they know that out of everyone they talk to that not all couples are going to book them.

steflily Posted: Apr 27, 2005 09:53 PM

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Absolutely.
FH and I feel guilty that we are unable to book the George Washington Manor. Janine has been so helpful and nice. The tasting was incredibul and we didn't have to pay for a thing - even drinks and desserts were included. We tipped the waiter well but we still feel bad. The place is just too small for us.

idovig Posted: Apr 27, 2005 10:26 PM

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AWWW! I feel guilty too sometimes.

shellnroc Posted: Apr 27, 2005 11:07 PM

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Yes I know what you mean. FH and I wanted to book a certain catering hall because the BM was fantastic!! We felt bad and FH would always mention his name after we visited other halls. But we didn't book that hall and now that BM doesn't even work their anymore.

hmpena Posted: Apr 28, 2005 12:06 AM

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I always feel bad. I kept asking FI, 'Should we call and say sorry?' He thinks I am nuts!

Kerrycec Posted: Apr 28, 2005 09:10 AM

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since I'm in the wedding business already, I don't, but I do see what you mean

JessicaM. Posted: Apr 28, 2005 09:34 AM

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Posted by hmpena

I always feel bad. I kept asking FI, 'Should we call and say sorry?' He thinks I am nuts!

I am always tempted to call!!! I never know what is appropriate...but I guess they are used to it....

kase21 Posted: Apr 28, 2005 10:14 AM

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I actually did call the watermill. The BM was so nice. I was getting over being sick and could barely talk at all. We saw 7 halls that day and he was number 5. We chatted about the hall, Extreme Home Makeover and he fed us, since he knew the day had been long and at that point non-stop...

But I chose Majestic Gardens and gave him a courtesy call to thank him for his time a few days later!

I always feel bad about not picking someone after spending the time with them! My FH thinks I'm crazy!

buggiegirl Posted: Apr 28, 2005 10:19 AM

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I am glad I am not the only one...

you girls always make me feel better

july06bride Posted: Apr 28, 2005 10:25 AM

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Youre def not the only one...but remember you are doing what is best for you

conigs25 Posted: Apr 28, 2005 02:37 PM

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They wouldnt b ein business if people always said no. Someone is obviously saying yes and it doesnt have to be you. Youre spending a whole lot of cash on this so the person has to be RIGHT for YOU!!!!