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do you feel this way too (regarding missing rsvps)

AwaitingAugust Posted:

do you feel this way too (regarding missing rsvps)

do you feel that the people who never rsvp'd are kind of rude and shouldn't have been invited in the first place?

it annoys me to no end.

but oh well, too late now
StaceyWill Posted:

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Totally~waiting for RSVP's was the worst part of the whole planning process for me.

canmigs Posted:

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YES!!!! I have actually decided to not be friends with one person anymore because she never responded to my invite or my message on facebook.

Future Mrs H Posted:

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YES!!

What bothers me the most is when people ask 'when is the last day i cant let you know?' Its like they are waiting to see if something better will come up
SoonToBMrsC Posted:

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I just think that it's flat out RUDE for people to hold onto their rvsp's. I will never understand why you need to sit on responding for so long, your either coming or your not!

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by Future Mrs H

YES!!

What bothers me the most is when people ask 'when is the last day i cant let you know?' Its like they are waiting to see if something better will come up



my 'favorite' is FH's friend who told me she doesn't know yet because it's 'too far away' in the future ... this was when we had one month till the wedding.
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBMrsC

I just think that it's flat out RUDE for people to hold onto their rvsp's. I will never understand why you need to sit on responding for so long, your either coming or your not!



agreed ... it's not that difficult to look on a calendar and figure it out.
Future Mrs H Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust


Posted by Future Mrs H

YES!!

What bothers me the most is when people ask 'when is the last day i cant let you know?' Its like they are waiting to see if something better will come up



my 'favorite' is FH's friend who told me she doesn't know yet because it's 'too far away' in the future ... this was when we had one month till the wedding.



Too far in the future- what does she want you to wait till the day before????
Bride825 Posted:

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No....the people that sent them in late or didnt even send them at all are my closest friends and family. They just thought 'of course I'll be there' and forgot to look rsvp date or the invitation again.

Future Mrs H Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBMrsC

I just think that it's flat out RUDE for people to hold onto their rvsp's. I will never understand why you need to sit on responding for so long, your either coming or your not!



i dont understand that either. I always send mine back right away.
jackieee Posted:

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It's very rude. I just dont get it...I mean some situations I can understand...if you have kids and waiting to see if they can come...waiting to see if you have a date I can even see....but if you know you cant come...send it!!!

it's rude and just BS!! one cousin is making fh really pissed off. she is avoiding answering how many people are coming..she sent an email that she never got it..so i wrote to her and said how many are coming? she wrote back and avoided answering it...w t fff
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by Bride825

No....the people that sent them in late or didnt even send them at all are my closest friends and family. They just thought 'of course I'll be there' and forgot to look rsvp date or the invitation again.




haha, well that's something totally different

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