There is just so much to do, so much that goes into planning this day, it's the little things. I know I just have to keep my cool but WOW!
scocaj
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I know.. Every time you get one thing done.. there still is so much more that needs to get done...
I also am in the process of buying a house.. so I feel so overwhelmed.. that i cant take it somedays...
stephanief
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I actually feel GREAT. I am not stressing over the wedding AT ALL....yet
kissy27
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I made a 2006 checklist the other day & realized I only have 5 items checked off out of the million left to do!!! I will be hitting 6 months next weekend & you can beat my arse is going to be getting into gear!!!!!
cindyandkevin
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I go back and forth. Sometimes I feel like we're doing all right, and then there are days where I'm freaking out. It's important to be very organized and take things in small doses rather than try to handle everything at once.
JanuaryBride06
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I'm just beginning to feel overwhelmed with just over three months to go. Enjoy it now; it doesn't seem that way, but you do have time.
hmpena
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I definitely do! I just posted about this the other day. Planning can definitely get the best of you. What I do is make a list of all of the things that have to get done and prioritize.
seta
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Just take each day and task at a time...it is the only thing that is keeping me going.... between wedding plans, two jobs, grad school and the fact that I am moving homes..i can scream!
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I suddenly do especially with our one year mark coming fast...I feel like I have sooo many things that I have to do...plus I work in the accounting field so from January to April 15th I live and breathe my job...no wedding stuff for me durning that time
SuzBride
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ugh YES! My job is so exhausing and I don't have many vacation days, so it is so hard to plan/make appt/go to appt at night (I just want to veg out!)
Plus we are in the process of buying a house and having to deal with a shady builder, which is a PITA
LaurenluvsTJ
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I don't know, not really. We did all the major stuff already, finished a few months ago. Ask me this question again, in say January or Febuary
kellwolfe
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sometime i do but when i look at this i am like - i have so much done already and i am head of my self there isnt its that much more that i could have done....But i hear ya i do get my self worked up all the time
johnsae
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I know...I am very overwhelmed lately...especially when my FH says, 'so, we're pretty much done, right?' ahh!!
October Bliss
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I don't know if overwhelmed is the word to describe what I'm going through. I've been in a funk (not motivated etc) since last Friday, yet anytime my mother says a single word about the wedding plans I jump down her throat. She keeps telling me I have more than a year and to stop worrying, yet I looked at my calendar, and two weeks from Saturday it will be a year. These next two weeks somehow don't really feel like so much time for her to be saying I have more than a year.
I want everything in the planning to be perfect, because I know somewhere along the day something will go wrong.
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I live in Los Angeles and I'm having my wedding on Long Island next June, so Weekly Wedding Panic Attacks have become the norm for me.
The big things are done, but these little things (NO invitations, hair/makeup person, photographer as of yet) are killing me slowly. And I would assume that the stress would make me not want to eat, but NO it is the opposite.
So right when I am about to lose it, I remind myself that it is one day and it will come and go so fast. But I will have the rest of my life with my best friend.
And that makes things better. So does wine, in large quantities.
johnsae
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So does wine, in large quantities.
hear hear!!
NPTbride
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Yes, yes, yes.
With less than eight months to go I still have plenty to do: dress, photographer, music, florist.....
Somehow we will all get it done. Not to worry.
BKtoLI
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Yup!!!
Right now we have a lot of the major things out of the way! But there's still all these small things left to do, although some of them have to wait until further down the line.
However, because I started so early, I now have duplicates of stuff!!! I have 2 tiaras, 3 sets of day of jewelry, it's insane!!
If I didn't think about it so much, I wouldn't have all this crap!! But it's nice to know that I have some of the small stuff bought and paid for, so it's less money I have to shell out as the day gets closer!!
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Posted by stephanief
I actually feel GREAT. I am not stressing over the wedding AT ALL....yet
I'm seriously not stressing. I left a lot of time for myself and spending a lot of time of each vendor really reduced the stress level.
Tracy06
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I am using a ckecklist as well and it is making it a little bit easier.. I dred the day when we have to make a time schedule for who is going here, and when are we meetiing, etc..
