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Do you mail the officiant an invite?

Mrs Z To Be Posted:

Do you mail the officiant an invite?

TIA.
AngnShaun Posted:

Re: Do you mail the officiant an invite?

we didnt... but he wasnt invited to the reception

Future Mrs H Posted:

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Are you inviting him to the reception? If so then yes.

win01 Posted:

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We did as we are having her stay for CH, dinner and dancing... She knows my FH and our wedding singer...

MerSaysEh Posted:

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ours told us that he won't be staying for the reception BUT to mail him an invite so that we know he has the location/date blah blah all in one place

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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you don't need to invite him, but you can if you want (though from what i hear, they'll more often than not decline the offer)

Mrs Z To Be Posted:

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Well, I wanted to give her the option. I thought most people sis this. I guess not

IF I just tell her to come to CH, is that weird or rude?
AwaitingAugust Posted:

Re: Do you mail the officiant an invite?

Posted by Mrs Z To Be

Well, I wanted to give her the option. I thought most people sis this. I guess not

IF I just tell her to come to CH, is that weird or rude?


That's sort of what we did ... we told him 'ceremony starts at 11am ... feel free to stay for CH and have a drink or two with us' .... he declined
Rosalind_75 Posted:

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we didnt

allornil Posted:

Re: Do you mail the officiant an invite?

most decline if they're not close with you. There's no need to mail one out if that's the case.

I'd also extend the offer to stay for the CH.

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