Do you mail your officiant an invite?
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Do you mail your officiant an invite?
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yes. 100%
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We are not inviting him.
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Etiquette says you send him one. We will
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ok!!
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yup! the priest who married us also married my 2 other sisters and was there to do my communion and confirmation- he only came to our CH.
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Is it at a church or did you hire him? You really don't have to if you are paying him. It also depends on your relationship with him. I didn't think I was going to invite mine b/c I am having a quick cer. at RH and kind of looked at the officiant as another vendor. But over the last few months I have established a relationship w/ him (emails, meetings, invites for dinner!) so I think I def. will now. Every situation is different.
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Yes, you should invite your officiant, regardless of whether you are paying him/her or not. It's proper etiquette. The chances that s/he will attend are very low, but on the off chance s/he attends, s/he should be seated with the guests, not the vendors.
FTR, our officiant hung around for the CH, not the reception and was therefore not included in the headcount.
FTR, our officiant hung around for the CH, not the reception and was therefore not included in the headcount.
