Do you really believe..

AdriandSteve Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:18 AM

Do you really believe..

Do you really believe in sending every person 18 and older in a household an invite?

I REALLY don't want to do this because then i'd be sending 4 invitations to one house!

AngnShaun Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:19 AM

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I am not unless they are getting invited with a guest

Jna2010 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:20 AM

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ummm no lol unless theyre invited with a guest then yes im sending them seperate invitations but if not theyll be added on to the 'and famly' part

jcreilly Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:21 AM

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I do because you should add and guest to their invites

Becca2010 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:21 AM

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Posted by AngnShaun

I am not unless they are getting invited with a guest

ITA! One of my BMs has a younger brother who's about 23 and his name will be on the envelope with his parents. My BM will get a separate invite with '& guest.'

stinenandy2010 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:21 AM

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Posted by AngnShaun

I am not unless they are getting invited with a guest

same here

AdriandSteve Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:22 AM

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ok, here is my situation. One of my BM's and her husband and baby (baby's not invited lol) live with her parents.

Also in this home is her grandmother and older brother and his gf (who doesn't live there but stays over).

I'm inviting the whole family. My friend has not changed her last name yet. SO.... do i just address it 'To the B Family' and hope that everyone knows that everyone is invited? lol

StellaStar13 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:23 AM

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Off of the top of my head I can only think of my Aunt & Uncle who has more than 2 ppl (that we are inviting) to the wedding. I will def include him in their invite, not sure the proper way to do this but I will.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:23 AM

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I never really thought about it.

Some people are getting separate invited, others will get it as a family.

I could care less if anyone thinks I'm breaking etiquette rules

amarra121 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:23 AM

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i dont want to but fh thinks we should. ITs a battle im not gonna give up on. Why spend the money? its a waste.

Jna2010 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:25 AM

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Posted by AdriandSteve

ok, here is my situation. One of my BM's and her husband and baby (baby's not invited lol) live with her parents.

Also in this home is her grandmother and older brother and his gf (who doesn't live there but stays over).

I'm inviting the whole family. My friend has not changed her last name yet. SO.... do i just address it 'To the B Family' and hope that everyone knows that everyone is invited? lol

i would maybe put to the b family and send her a seperate one to 'ms. x and mr. y'

MarjorieFrank Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:26 AM

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Posted by AdriandSteve

ok, here is my situation. One of my BM's and her husband and baby (baby's not invited lol) live with her parents.

Also in this home is her grandmother and older brother and his gf (who doesn't live there but stays over).

I'm inviting the whole family. My friend has not changed her last name yet. SO.... do i just address it 'To the B Family' and hope that everyone knows that everyone is invited? lol

In this case, I would send an invitation to everyone separately. Especially since they are a married couple.

AngnShaun Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:27 AM

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Posted by MarjorieFrank

Posted by AdriandSteve

ok, here is my situation. One of my BM's and her husband and baby (baby's not invited lol) live with her parents.

Also in this home is her grandmother and older brother and his gf (who doesn't live there but stays over).

I'm inviting the whole family. My friend has not changed her last name yet. SO.... do i just address it 'To the B Family' and hope that everyone knows that everyone is invited? lol

In this case, I would send an invitation to everyone separately. Especially since they are a married couple.

ITA

halfbaked Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:30 AM

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Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by MarjorieFrank

Posted by AdriandSteve

ok, here is my situation. One of my BM's and her husband and baby (baby's not invited lol) live with her parents.

Also in this home is her grandmother and older brother and his gf (who doesn't live there but stays over).

I'm inviting the whole family. My friend has not changed her last name yet. SO.... do i just address it 'To the B Family' and hope that everyone knows that everyone is invited? lol

In this case, I would send an invitation to everyone separately. Especially since they are a married couple.

ITA

Agreed. All guests older than 18 are getting a plus one, so all guests older than 18 are getting their own invite.

little j Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:35 AM

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i ahve a similar situation. grandparents got their own invite, so did parents. i know it is stupid. but o well

FutureLW Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:39 AM

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Posted by Jna2010

i would maybe put to the b family and send her a seperate one to 'ms. x and mr. y'

I agree! This is what I would do

MrsC2010 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:40 AM

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Posted by jcreilly

I do because you should add and guest to their invites

ita

20mrsc10 Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:41 AM

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i know this is a big hotspot..honestly im doing it on a case to case basis-my moms boss is an unbelievably close family friend..im closer to him than any of my aunts or uncles-he has a 20 year old daughter that i cant stand-im not sending her her own invite..but she is invited..other people are getting their own, some aren't..

AdriandSteve Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:42 AM

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oooookkk..... lol

But they are only getting 2 STD's! One for each fridge in the house! lol

FutureJOC Posted: Sep 09, 2009 11:42 AM

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If the guest is getting a plus+ the need to have their own invite. I know it makes no sense to send multiple invites to the same house but unfortuntely there is no way around it.