Do you take offense to

DreamyD Posted: Sep 09, 2011 08:47 PM

Do you take offense to

The 'No' RSVP's?
My first five came in today- 8 pp yes- 2pp no
So four out of five envelopes were yes.

jovigirl414 Posted: Sep 09, 2011 08:50 PM

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I got a little offended at certain people saying no ... I guess it's natural

DreamyD Posted: Sep 09, 2011 09:03 PM

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But you had a great a great wedding anyway- right!!? :)

jovigirl414 Posted: Sep 09, 2011 09:18 PM

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Oh absolutely!!!

meghan13 Posted: Sep 09, 2011 09:21 PM

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there was one in particular that surprised me.

Other then that - no, I needed no's lol

futuremrstaheri Posted: Sep 09, 2011 09:40 PM

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There were several people who we thought were absolute yeses, but got a no RSVP (no explanation either). Didn't take offense, but it's their loss.

rosatemp Posted: Sep 09, 2011 09:58 PM

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Posted by jovigirl414

I got a little offended at certain people saying no ... I guess it's natural

same here but i look at it this way if they dont wanna come then i dont want them to come or be there either! we are better off

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Sep 09, 2011 10:01 PM

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Posted by futuremrstaheri

There were several people who we thought were absolute yeses, but got a no RSVP (no explanation either). Didn't take offense, but it's their loss.

this, but i did take offense

rosatemp Posted: Sep 09, 2011 10:05 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

Posted by futuremrstaheri

There were several people who we thought were absolute yeses, but got a no RSVP (no explanation either). Didn't take offense, but it's their loss.

this, but i did take offense

i did too at first then i said their loss not mine and they are gonna miss out on a good time

dunnkat Posted: Sep 09, 2011 10:06 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsFox

Posted by futuremrstaheri

There were several people who we thought were absolute yeses, but got a no RSVP (no explanation either). Didn't take offense, but it's their loss.

this, but i did take offense

Ditto, especially when there is no explanation!

Bree71584 Posted: Sep 10, 2011 12:00 AM

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no not really the only ones that are offensive are the ones that said yes and then now with a month left are cancelling, or the ones i've had to harass for an answer and they say they have something else that day (a family wedding, a vaction etc) its offensive to me that they knew about this other commitment when i sent the invitation but couldnt be bothered to let me know until i had to hunt them down and harass for an answer. this sounds like a vent but people have worked my nerves this week like no other!

SoonToBeEMM Posted: Sep 10, 2011 01:54 AM

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i was a little offended by two of them. I really thought these poeple were going to come and when i got the no there was no explanation or anything so i was offended, but the other no's i have gotten so far i was expecting so didnt bother me.

cmwals01 Posted: Sep 10, 2011 02:25 AM

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I'm hoping for a few no's I'd prefer about 20 no's lol

DMLHeartsCRM Posted: Sep 10, 2011 10:14 AM

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Not really a couple of them i pretty much knew were definate nos. However I did get offended when one of my closest friends said no, with the only explaination being she had other plans..... She knew about our wedding date for 2 years!

nicole3983 Posted: Sep 10, 2011 10:18 AM

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I was upset with some of the no responses. Some guest wrote a note as to why they couldnt make it. Others just wrote no

MrsKon1111 Posted: Sep 10, 2011 11:09 AM

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Depends on the person...certain people i wasnt offended cause i kind of knew they were not going to come but if it a completely shocking no then yes i get offended