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Do you think I am crazy?

t Posted:

Do you think I am crazy?

my father inlaw just passed away and for a while I was thinking of having another child.
I am thinking of it again and it hasnt been a month.

We are not financially secure by any means. but my little guy is 4 and I would love to have another kid running around even though I have a live-in, who takes care of him while I am at work. My 4 yr old starts school in Sept and dont know if its cause he is going to school or what but I want another kid before its 2late. I had 2 csections for the boys and just want to try for a third of course try for a girl but as long as its healthy. I want as many kids pretty much as I can but since I had 2 csections I dont know if it is a smart idea.

denakimou Posted:

Re: Do you think I am crazy?

I don't think you're crazy1 I can't wait to fill my house with children.
btrflygrl Posted:

Re: Do you think I am crazy?

how does your husband feel about it?

t Posted:

Re: Do you think I am crazy?

he shrugs it off, like everything else. my guys were a surprise to him because we were not trying. Everytime I didnt try we got a surprise. When we did try nothing. it has been four years and its weird cause people ask me if I will be having any more. I answer hopefully. As at my FIL funeral at the cemetary the priest asked if anybody was pregnant and they all looked at me nobody knew I was thinking of it except my husband. Its causse we surprised them before with it. I guess it would be nice but do you think it would be to close to his death. Is there a certain amount of time to wait or such?

btrflygrl Posted:

Re: Do you think I am crazy?

I don't think there is any etiquette....I would ask your husband how he feels....if he is in mourning it might be too much emotional stuff for him to handle. Does he want a third?

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