Do you think I'm crazy?

Mitabtrfly Posted: Aug 20, 2006 12:44 AM

Do you think I'm crazy?

I was originally supposed to have 2 flower girls. However, my cousin lost his job and I told him it was ok if he couldn't have his daughter in it, because I understood bills were more important than purchasing a dress she'd only use 1 time. To make a long story short...I drove up to Connecticut to see them yesterday, and after seeing her, couldn't help wanting her in it!! I went and found a dress for her at Davids bridal, bought it off the rack and am having it cleaned for her. Do you think he'll get offended by this? The dress was only $69.99 and I really wanted her to be in it. He's coming to the wedding...so I figured..she could be in it..all she needed was the dress. I plan to buy her shoes also. I've always been VERY close with my cousin (he's like my brother)..but I'm hoping he won't take offense to this. I just wanted to help and show him that I really wanted her and him to be a part of this day. I mean how could I resist this face???

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 12:52 AM

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No, I am sure he will be fine. I payed for my FG dresses and shoes, because I new it would be a lot for my sister.

OctoberPrincess2006 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 03:49 AM

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awwwww.... she is adorable! I think that was a very nice thing for you to do.

69 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 07:59 AM

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You can't, I couldn't. I am sure he'll understand and won't be offended.... I would have done the same thing!!!!

debsey75 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 09:20 AM

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She is adorable. If you explain to your cousin the way you just told us, I think he would be happy that you care for his daughter so much.

petunia77 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 09:46 AM

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i don't think you're crazy - i think you are incredibly kind and thoughtful!

luvmypup Posted: Aug 20, 2006 11:03 AM

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Posted by 69

You can't, I couldn't. I am sure he'll understand and won't be offended.... I would have done the same thing!!!!

i agree. that was such a nice thing of you to do. you saved them the expense and im sure he will appreciate that. !

Tracyann1976 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 11:09 AM

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You are not crazy. It is a really nice thing that you want to do.

CLMon7906 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 02:26 PM

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I bought one of my BM's dresses so that she wouldn't have to spend additional money on the wedding as she already had to travel from NC to be there b/c money is tight for her and her family. She was touched and honored that I did that.

daniebc16 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 04:59 PM

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I think that once he sees how happy it makes you and his daughter, he will be happy also. That is a really sweet thing you are doing!!

JohnnysGirl350 Posted: Aug 20, 2006 05:11 PM

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Shes SOO Cute! I don't think he will take offense. I bought for my flower girls becuase they are my neieces and my sister is single mom. She can't afford it but I want them!