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DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

kassy30 Posted:

DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

He really wants to wear this bluish vest and then the groomsman will wear black vests. Everyone says it is not the appropriate way for a groom!

Please give your honest opinions!

Thanks
Soon2BRomeo Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

I think you need to be careful with this. The wrong color choice and his vest will look faded next to his GM. If he wants to be different try having the GM were a vest the color of your BM's dresses and have him were black or the color of your dress.

AwaitingAugust Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

i think if you are both ok with it, then go for it

BUT i think it does make the tux look slightly less 'fancy' than a white or silver vest would.
allornil Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

I dunno. I think if that's what he wants, let him wear it. It's his wedding too.

BlackTieGuy Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

No, it is not ok.

Colored vests are not appropriate for Black Tie. Not to mention, that the groom will look especially inappropriate if he is in a colored vest while his groomsmen are in black vests.

The groom and groomsmen should wear black, low-cut tuxedo vests like this:

http://www.finetuxedos.com/tuxedo-vests/solid-tuxedo-vests/backless-low-cut-tuxedo-vest.html

If the groom really wants to look different, he can wear a white, pique vest, which is really meant for white tie dress, but can be used in black tie as well:

http://www.finetuxedos.com/tuxedo-vests/solid-tuxedo-vests/white-pique-backless-vest.html

Also, make sure they are each wearing black, self-tie bowties, in a material that matches the lapel facings (satin or grosgrain).

Hope this helps!
allornil Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

are you having a black tie wedding btw?

also bowties aren't really in style as much as they used to be. Are they wearing bow ties?
rendel Posted:

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I think it will be fine, the groom is suppose to stand out!!!

bigsal Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

I think it should be fine. he should stand out a bit, but do you know what shade of blue he would be wearing?

Hellosailor11 Posted:

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Let him wear what he wants!!
blu6385 Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

its your guys wedding you can do what you want who cares what is ok and what isnt ...

DH and his GMs wore hats through out the whole wedding (well not the ceremony) I am sure plenty of people thought this was not 'ok' but we didnt care!
gina409 Posted:

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im all for doing what you love and who cares what anyone else thinks!!!

i wore blue converse to my reeption
gina409 Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?


Posted by BlackTieGuy

No, it is not ok.

Colored vests are not appropriate for Black Tie. Not to mention, that the groom will look especially inappropriate if he is in a colored vest while his groomsmen are in black vests.

The groom and groomsmen should wear black, low-cut tuxedo vests like this:

http://www.finetuxedos.com/tuxedo-vests/solid-tuxedo-vests/backless-low-cut-tuxedo-vest.html

If the groom really wants to look different, he can wear a white, pique vest, which is really meant for white tie dress, but can be used in black tie as well:

http://www.finetuxedos.com/tuxedo-vests/solid-tuxedo-vests/white-pique-backless-vest.html

Also, make sure they are each wearing black, self-tie bowties, in a material that matches the lapel facings (satin or grosgrain).

Hope this helps!





allornil Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?


Posted by gina409

im all for doing what you love and who cares what anyone else thinks!!!

i wore blue converse to my reeption



OMG you are my IDOL! I'm so doing that too.
NellieBellie32 Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?

i dont see anything wrong w/ itl....im wearing a pink dress.....everything doesnt have to be all white

pipermaru Posted:

Re: DO you think it is ok for my FH to wear a blueish vest instead of black or white?


Posted by allornil

are you having a black tie wedding btw?

also bowties aren't really in style as much as they used to be. Are they wearing bow ties?



actually bowties are REALLY in style - did you watch the oscars??

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