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Jna2010 Posted:

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I dont stick to my invite list and send out 1 std per house??!! I'm trying to be cheap lol i dont want to send out 200 invites AND 200 std's, and i just dont see the point in having more than 1 person per household having a magnet lol.... or is this really tacky? Please be honest, i can take it i swear lol....

jayepyt Posted:

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thats wat iam doing 1 invite and 1 std per house
Im getting Married Posted:

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I don't think it is tacky...I would put to the 'Smith Family' or write the individual first names if you are not inviting the whole household.

FutureMrs.M Posted:

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i did that for certain people...the exception was people in the bp but families each got one

Lsorrent Posted:

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For me it depends on the family. For instance, FBIL still lives with FIL's, but he's FH's best man, so he'll get a separate one. But there are some that are going to be sent as one. Like FH's cousins and their kids will be 'The X Family' on the STD envelope.

bubberflys Posted:

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I'm sending one per house. The only reason I feel we send separate invites is really to acknowledge who in the house can bring a guest.
This will probably be a little tricky for the 2 families where I am inviting the say the mother, father and oldest daughter only ( b/c the two other children are too young). But I'll probably just address the wording of the STD to reflect that.

eta: I agree with Laura, I probably would send each bridal party member their own too.. all though that would probably only really add 3 extra to mail.
MayBride2010 Posted:

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Posted by Im getting Married

I don't think it is tacky...I would put to the 'Smith Family' or write the individual first names if you are not inviting the whole household.



Agreed
Kimbiz1 Posted:

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I think you are totally fine sending one per address. ESPECIALLY with the numbers you're talking about.

CappyGirl Posted:

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I don't think its bad at all - maybe just a little tricky if there are people in the household you will be inviting with a guest. Just something to consider, but otherwise I think its totally fine!

Jna2010 Posted:

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Posted by CappyGirl

I don't think its bad at all - maybe just a little tricky if there are people in the household you will be inviting with a guest. Just something to consider, but otherwise I think its totally fine!



do you have to put 'and guest' on std's?!!! def didnt know that one!

eta: i was just going to do that on th einvites
grrulz Posted:

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ideally I want to do it per couple but if a group of family lives under one household so i'll be sending 1 for the family if i send for each they will have lot of magnets on their fridge lmao! that will drive them crazy i think lol

CappyGirl Posted:

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Hmm, I guess if you know you are going to invite someone with a guest, but you are right, maybe its not necessary!!?? But what if someone is living at home and you are inviting them with a specific gf or bf? Then maybe they should get their own? Sorry, I'm not much help!

CrazyLady Posted:

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thats what I did!!

JenBill61210 Posted:

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yes thats what i'm doing... if multiple people live together then i thought it would not make sense to send each family member a STD. this way they can have one magnet (what i got as my STD) to stick on their fridge

SummerBride10 Posted:

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I dont think there's anything wrong with that. Especially with magnets...I mean really, how many fridges does one house have anyway?

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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yea i don't its tacky, when the invitations come then i would give each person one only if they are invited with a guest, otherwise it can just go to the 'X family'

Jna2010 Posted:

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awesome!!! ty ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

soontobecruz Posted:

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I think it is fine!!! I gave mine out as part of the favors at the e-party so some homes will have multiple magnets. Those who weren't at the party I am sending one per household.

little j Posted:

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yeah i think you are fine. i plan to only send STD to half of the invite list anyway...since we are still playing w the list and the #s....

Rosalind_75 Posted:

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Not tacky at all

We are doing one STD and one invite per house

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