Do you think sending out STDs positively affects the final count at your wedding?
peabody
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Do you think sending out STDs positively affects the final count at your wedding?
I sent out STDs, because my wedding is on a Friday night and I wanted all the guests to be aware it was a Friday, so they can make schedule adjustments if need be.
I am just wondering if you all think this helps with the final head count?
nov2004bride
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Our wedding ceremony is Friday afternoon and I know for a fact it is helping our count for the ceremony. Everyone has taking off work and we are expecting a lot more people then we thought. It is all because of our STD's. We even have many room's booked already at the hotel from the STD's.
wenndypoo
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I don't think it made a difference for us. There were people who we sent an STD to who still couldn't get the day off or find a baby sitter. I think the bottom line is, people who want to be there will be, no matter what. Those who don't will still find an excuse!
jill13bean
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Posted by wenndypoo
I don't think it made a difference for us. There were people who we sent an STD to who still couldn't get the day off or find a baby sitter. I think the bottom line is, people who want to be there will be, no matter what. Those who don't will still find an excuse!
very well said!!!
btrflygrl
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I don't think so....people will inevitably lose them, misplace them, or forget until they get an invite or people talk about your wedding!! Yours was a magnet, right? That should be easy since it will be put on the fridge and easily visible EVERY DAY from now till then!!
fallinlove04
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we sent out STD's pretty early, and people have booked rooms at the hotel already. we had a lot of people traveling so we wanted to give them that opportunity. i'm worried that there won't be enough rooms and i am not positive they will let me block more.
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we see them on everyones fridge too when we are at their houses.
brooklynbridezilla
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I hope so!...Our date is 11-05-2005, so we will send out the STD's in November of this year. We decided to do this for the out of towners- so that they have ample time to schedule days off and arrange for travel and such.
AliKing
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Yes I strongly agree that sending out STD positively affects the final head count. When people recieve them, they usually mark their calendar and as time gets closer, make arrangements.... I think if its a friday weddding I would def send them, because you want to give people advance notice, if they need to take off of work.
september2004
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Posted by AliKing
Yes I strongly agree that sending out STD positively affects the final head count. When people recieve them, they usually mark their calendar and as time gets closer, make arrangements.... I think if its a friday weddding I would def send them, because you want to give people advance notice, if they need to take off of work.
i agree...
1/2 our guest list are OOTers who also travel a lot. With advanced notice they can schedule their trips accordingly, I wouldn't expect someone to cancel an already planned vacation just to come to my wedding...with a save-the-date they get a nice heads up...
Stavia
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I thought sending STDs would have effected by head count, but it didn't. Those who truly wanted to be with us were & others, well what a waste it was sending them STDs. One cousin in particular bothered me the most. I sent out STD's in February, she lives on LI, but tends to take 6 to 8 week trips to see her parents(my Aunt & Uncle) in Florida, well even though she got my STD she planned a trip to Florida where she left August 24 & came Back October 4. Thats right the day after my wedding! Thinking about it still makes me angry & to make matters worse, her parents didn't come because of it & neither did another aunt & uncle who was suppose to drive up with her parents!
no stress bride
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Posted by btrflygrl
I don't think so....people will inevitably lose them, misplace them, or forget until they get an invite or people talk about your wedding!! Yours was a magnet, right? That should be easy since it will be put on the fridge and easily visible EVERY DAY from now till then!!
