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Do you think this would be appropriate to put in the invitations?

JIFFY Posted:

Do you think this would be appropriate to put in the invitations?

Since I am getting married so freakin early, we should be at the BVYC by 10am for pics.
I am getting there at 9:30. So this is what I thought.

Just for immediate family
Mom/Dad/Siblings/Grandparents
(Aunt/Uncle/Cousins-optional)

I was going to include a little white card in the invite (made myself) telling my family to please arrive by 9:30 for pics..breakfast to be served. And the same to his family but change the time to 10:30.

Do you think it is incredibly rude of me to ask people to get there at a certain time for pics? My Grandma would hop a ride with my Aunt and Uncle and they live in Jersey 1 hour 15 min away.
(I can always ask them to come at 10:00)

Also, I am not having a cocktail hour. Something to consider.
JenMike331 Posted:

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no i dont think its rude....its for ur immediate fam they should know that they are that special and important that u want them in ur pics

BRod-Cheng Posted:

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Not rude at all. I think your family will end up appreciating the fact that they will get to enjoy the CH and the reception without being disturbed for pictures.

We did the same thing.
MrsMichel07 Posted:

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I think it is fine!!

MichLiz213 Posted:

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I think it sounds fine!

jennd311 Posted:

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I think its a great idea

AllJoy Posted:

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Yep, its fine.

shelby34 Posted:

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I agree...they are family and know that they will need to be involved.

RobbsWifey Posted:

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I agree, there is nothing wrong with that at all!
cherilicious16 Posted:

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its not rude at all!
it is great that you want to make sure the people you love are in your wedding pics!
chrissyandvin Posted:

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I think its perfectly fine
happygirl07 Posted:

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Jiff, you rude??? Never.

It's totally fine and I'm sure they will be more than willing to get there that early. Relax, it's all good.
ant n tilde Posted:

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thats a great idea! I plan on asking our families to arrive at JT about an hour before the CH starts also - i was just going to verbally tell them but this is a great idea!

lizzy102778 Posted:

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I don't think it's rude at all. I think they will feel honored that you want them there at a special time for pics.

ejm1219 Posted:

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Not rude at all - In fact I think it is very thoughtful including times. I would just do word of mouth LOL

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