Do you think you have changed?

Do you think you have changed?

I am becoming a little B!tch lately. People p!ss me off so I am becoming more honest and I speak out . I think my nerves with the wedding ,and waiting to start a new job have a lot to do with it so I have no patience . Do you think your attitude changed or opinion of certain people during planning the wedding ? Should I feel bad or is it normal?

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I dont think I would say 'changed' but you definitly look at things differently. You want everyone to see what you see, and when they dont it makes you mad! haha...thats how I felt. I was definitly more outspoken and didnt take any crap from anybody. I wanted people to listen... . Dont feel bad though, they understand...

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I think i have become a total b!tch absolutely. I have no patience for people and their stupid comments. I now speak my mind which I used to never do!! lol

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Yes yes YES! This is me to a T lately. In fact, I've talking to somebody to help me deal with this change, and I'm not ashamed to admit it!!!!!!!

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Yesssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!! I've been SOOOO b!tchy lately! And its so not like me.. lol.. I am a zilla!

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Yeah i hold alot more attitude because planning a wedding can become extremely frustrating and people just piss you off so much more easily. lol. Your not the only one. trust me.

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I would say I have changed a lot since we got engaged. Number one ive turned into betty crocker lately b/c I wana be a good wife and take care of my husband. I also feel like i have changed I wouldnt say b itchier but more tough. When you do all your planning for a day that should be ust about the 2 of you, and about what you want, and cetain people dont allow that to hapen or feel the need to complain no matter what you do it will def change a person

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I've always been a b!tch so not much has changed

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yeah, not a lot but little changes. i have little tolerance and am easily frustrated by the minutia. i've been looking for a job on top of all of this, it's been more annoying that anything else.

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Personally, throughout all of the planning, I learned not to let people walk all over my, I spoke my mind and let my opinions be known, I dunno if that makes me b!tchy or not but I realize a little more about who I am and what's good for me and DH...it was a learning experience...

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OMG I havent been a complete B!tch but I have had a little tude lately. With FMIL esp, she keeps changing the guest list and I am trying desperatly to get the addresses out to the invitaiton company for the envelops. Ugh I know she means well but its so annoying!!!!!!!

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I feel like I talk about the wedding non-stop at work! That's definitely different about me! lol

Other than that, nothing's really changed. I've always been a bit bossy.

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No, I dont think I've changed.... I pretty much tell it like it is... if I dont like something I let people know. I also like to take charge and do things myself. For ex: the bridal shower- yes I am involved because I need to know whats going on because Im so anal.

I do think I am bi tchy on rare occassions, but thats only when I am dealing with people who give me attitude lol

I really dont think I've changed because I was anal before and pretty set in my ways and I still am lol

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I've always been one to tell it like it is, so I certainly haven't changed on that side...

Not only am I planning a wedding but I'm closing on my house July 10th, desperately trying to sell my co-op and also trying to do my job, which involves travel and lots of stress. My anxiety level is at an all time high...its making me crazy and I kinda feel like crying more than yelling...

Though I am just posting this after telling off an old lady in the laundry room who scolded me for leaving the washer finished for 3 minutes before I got there...I actually yelled, 'M'AAM I'M DOING THE BEST THAT I CAN!!!!!!! PLEASE STOP!!!!!!' lolol

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Yes! I feel crazy lately! The funny thing is, I don't really stress about the wedding, I'm pretty low key, things don't bother me, I'm like , 3 months to go...plenty of time! But the last couple of weeks, I feel like I;m nuts inside! Somebody posted about the 3 month mark making people go insane, maybe subconsciously that's it? I think I may have to start smoking again!

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I don't think I've really changed. I definitely think that people perceive me differently though. I have always had 2 completely different sides to my personality. One is the very laid back Gina who has a 'whatever' attitude. That's my personaltity with most people and things. Then there is the Gina when it comes to stuff for me. I am a total perfectionist but only with myself. think people thought I was going to be the laid back 'I don't care' bride, and instead I am being a bit of a control freak, which people aren't used to from me.

Oh well, they'll get over it.

I told my mom the other day 'wedding planning is like riding a roller coaster. Sometimes it's really fun and sometimes you just want to throw up!'

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I have definitely changed, I have had two breakdowns with in the past two weeks. And for some reason I have a problem holding my tongue lately. My friend and I go walk around 5th ave everyday at lunch time and I can't hold my tongue, to the point where she's like Nicole your going to make me fight aren't you. I don't know why. It's so bad.