Do you think your...

KatieG2010 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 01:58 PM

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FMIL has been treating you different since the engagement? Any cold shoulders or evil eyes ??

rocketsummer17 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 01:59 PM

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Yep...The death stares are quite amusing!!

Rosalind_75 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 01:59 PM

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edited for being an idiot!!!

she is the same!!!!!

i lived in her house(basement) with fh for 4 years.

we have the best relationship

i think i talk to her more than fh

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:01 PM

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Hell no!! I have to say the FMIL really loves me. She has told me so many times that she does. And she is really excited about us getting married.

KatieG2010 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:13 PM

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My FMIL is acting like a witchy woman lately... I think she thinks I'm going to steal her son away forever... after 6 years you think she would know me by now... He is not a any more...

Sandradv121 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:14 PM

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GOD I though you were talking about FH!!

My FMIL is cool, but my mom is the one who changed lol. She is mom zilla to a tee.

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:15 PM

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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72

Hell no!! I have to say the FMIL really loves me. She has told me so many times that she does. And she is really excited about us getting married.

Same here!

and she has no daughters so she is excited to actually have a daughter she says

christine2010 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:15 PM

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i have a wonderful FMIL. she loves me & tells me all the time that she does. since getting engaged she likes me more because i also work in her office so i have taken on a lot of her responsibilites which makes her a happier person.

stinenandy2010 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:18 PM

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i guess you didn't read my post from this morning on another thread.....to say she is acts differently is putting it lightly! haha!

JenBill61210 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:19 PM

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nope... she just told me she wants to come dress shopping with me... (i think i'll let her come to a fitting though. the shopping is reserved for my mom & sister!)

KatieG2010 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:22 PM

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I def missed that post lol.. She tells me she loves me and I love her too. She too has no daughters so we have a bond but I think she's been acting like the iceburgler lately...

... hmm maybe it's me- maybe all this wedding planning has turned me into a looney tune...

italgal Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:23 PM

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My FMIL is so cool. I'm very lucky I could have been stuck with a bi-otch. She has told me many times she loves me.............for getting her last son out of her hair! LOL

grrulz Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:23 PM

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umm not really

StaceYums81 Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:35 PM

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I really don't have much of a relationship with my FILS to begin with - there is a lot of tension within the family that I am not involved in thank god, but even when FH lived at home, I didn't have much interaction with his folks. Now, there is zero interaction with his folks. Its not that they go out of their way to not speak to me or anything, we just don't see each other much and neither does FH

Lsorrent Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:50 PM

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Actually I feel like my FMIL is acting NICER since we've been engaged. She went overboard this year on my Christmas gift, like 3 times what she normally spends, and then bought us our pots and pans (expensive!) for our e-party.
I think she's finally realized that I'm not going anywhere

LaurenJosh Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:52 PM

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Posted by GonnaBeeMrsG

Posted by NYYankeeGirl72

Hell no!! I have to say the FMIL really loves me. She has told me so many times that she does. And she is really excited about us getting married.

Same here!

and she has no daughters so she is excited to actually have a daughter she says

Same with my FMIL

Its2Snappy Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:52 PM

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I've said it before and I'll say it again, I am VERY lucky. My FMIL is a sweetheart. If anything, she has gotten nicer if that's possible. She loves to be involved in anything wedding related. When I asked if she wanted to come with us to the RH to see it, she cried, and when I asked her to come with us to register (the first time only), she cried. She gets emotional which is so cute.

JillandJoe Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:53 PM

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she makes comments like ' your taking away my baby' but she laughs. I'm like her fourth child, she could never really be mean to me...

FSIL eggs her on though, she thinks its funny to see her get all emotional at the though of her youngest child getting married

Lsorrent Posted: Feb 26, 2009 02:53 PM

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Posted by JillandJoe

she makes comments like ' your taking away my baby' but she laughs. I'm like her fourth child, she could never really be mean to me...

FSIL eggs her on though, she thinks its funny to see her get all emotional at the though of her youngest child getting married

Oh see I get comments saying 'he's all yours now Laura!' and 'Now YOU get to deal with him!'