Sometimes I see the FH at the shower. I would prefer he come but when it's kind of over. My family does the X-rated cake and X-rated corsages.
july06bride
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My Fh was there at the beginning and was there at the end---If he REALLY wanted to be there I wouldnt mind- BUT Its more of a girly thing and sitting there watching me open presents would not be all that exciting for him
ETA- no bachelorette party- he did his thing and I did mine- we both had a lot of fun with the guys/girls... If it were a joint one-jack and jill, then fine- but if it were just the girls it would be weird for him to be there
jes81276
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FH came at the end to bring everything home. I think it would be weird for him to be at the shower with a bunch of women, and I don't think he really wanted to be there. However, if he did want to go then I wouldn't care. I definitely don't want him to be at my bachelorette party, as that is my celebration with my girls. Unless you are talking about a combine Bachelor/bachelorette party. I would be ok with that.
CKJ906
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I want him there for the beg of my shower to say hello to everyone..i think it's respectful. He will also come back to the party at the end..it's more of a girly thing I dont think he would want to stay. As far as my Bach party he would find no need to go...it's also for the girls
MrsH1156
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My FH will probably be there in the beginning and at the very end. He really doesn't want to sit around with a bunch of women but he will make an appearance.
DUCKS2001
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FH DID NOT COME TO MINE, HE WAS WAAY TOO SHY AND OVERWHEALMED BY ALL THE WOMEN
AlliNMatt06
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My FH was at my shower, but he stayed in a back room with my father, his father and my brother in law. We had a few no shows and the owner of the restaurant recommends the guys come and eat. So he was in and out of the room all night. I really liked him being there and he also enjoyed himself.
pebbles78
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my fh came in at the beginning of the shower...said hello to the people and went to hang out with my brother...it would have been weird for him to hang around...and boring...he did come back at the end to load the cars
We're having out bachelor and bachelorette parties on the same day---not done on purpose, just kinda happened that way.,.but I think hanging out all night with just my girlfriends would annoy the s.....t out of him...
chapel06
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We are actually having a male/female shower. One big barbq at my house.
EJSD2006
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FH came to mine to drop me off. the plan was just to drop me off but there were so many people and it took him forever to say hello to everyone that he ended up hanging around for almost an hour! so yeah, he's alot of the pics.
ABGS06
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My FH came at the end of the shower to help pack up the car with all my gifts. The small amount of time he was there at the end was overwhelming for him. He couldn't handle all the women
nickelpick
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My FH stayed at the start for like an hour, then he wanted me to call when the cake was ready to come out..... he was gone for like 3 hours, then we hung out with everyone!!! We had fun
