Does anyone do this? We have a wedding tonight and I dont know as many people as my husband does, so to get 'relaxed' I just popped open a bottle of wine and figured Ill just start early. My dh is worried cause he thinks by the time we get there, Im gonna be crocked...I know I will be fine. I sometimes do this before going out to a bar or something but have never really done it before a wedding..I just feel so nervous about it and I want to calm my nerves.
Danielle
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I do! Sometimes I have a glass or two beforehand, not enough to make me visibly drunk, just enough to take the edge off and relax a little! perfectly normal!
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YES i do but i would only have 1 glass. Because i usually have 1-2 at the cocktail hour and then some drinks at dinner...So you do have to becareful
PLUS you are starting on an empty stomach probably! So only 1 glass missy!!!
TracyInQueens
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I've done it. But only one glass at home- it won't do to be bombed before you leave! And for me, it does not take much these days.
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I had one glass just before and I am thinking of having another right before I leave. I made sure I had a few crackers with it!
We wont be able to make cocktail hour because dh is working and we wont make it in time so I figured, may as well catch up with everyone else before I leave. I am so happy to hear I am not the only one who does this! LOL
I usually am so shy and I need to relax a bit!
RedHead
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ok well if you are going to miss the cocktail hour..then 2 glasses BUT EAT SOMETHING SMALL..
I guess we all react to liquor differently
Boop2704
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Noreen, drink the whole bottle, you may need it!! No starting any trouble!!
nycchic_24
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I know Jaime!!!!!!!!!!!
This is the real reason I am drinking at all...I need my nerves to relax to forget all the drama! Although, I dont want it to backfire on me! Now that would be FUN!
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Posted by nycchic_24
I know Jaime!!!!!!!!!!!
This is the real reason I am drinking at all...I need my nerves to relax to forget all the drama! Although, I dont want it to backfire on me! Now that would be FUN!
i am a lot like that too!
I have 2 weddings comming up this summer and my DH is in the BP for one of them... So i will be BY MYSELF
i will be having a glass of wine!!! THAT is a definate!
nycchic_24
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Isnt it just nerve wracking?!?!?
RedHead
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Isnt it just nerve wracking?!?!?
YES
Boop2704
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Have a great time Noreen and just ignore the biatch and her husband. She is not worth your time or energy!! Where is the wedding at??
nycchic_24
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It was at the sandcastle and it took everything in me not to go off! They are such losers! They made sure they danced right in front of us..came over to our table ALOT and not one word..like we did something wrong!
I wound up coming home with a migraine because of the stress and not to mention had all those hurt feelings stirred up again. Ugh..at least its over!
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actually did this last night but it didnt work out the way I had planned. I had date # 4 and we when he got to my house I opened a bottle of wine- we were planning on having a glass or two before heading out for dinner . Well two glasses later I was a little tipsy- so we decided to continue with the wine and we stayed in... I am NOT complaining though...
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Posted by kdelace
actually did this last night but it didnt work out the way I had planned. I had date # 4 and we when he got to my house I opened a bottle of wine- we were planning on having a glass or two before heading out for dinner . Well two glasses later I was a little tipsy- so we decided to continue with the wine and we stayed in... I am NOT complaining though...
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!
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LOL Kdelace! I agree, good for you!
It really didnt work for me either. It reacted the wrong way on my nerves and instead of making me more relaxed it made me 'angry' and I had to use the bathroom like 100 times before the reception even started! When it was all over I came home with SUCH A MIGRAINE! Next time, I think Ill just try meditation. LOL
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Sorry Noreen!! Hey you know you are the better person. You and your DH are happy and that is all that matters. They will get theirs in the end. I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around!!
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LOL Kdelace! I agree, good for you!
It really didnt work for me either. It reacted the wrong way on my nerves and instead of making me more relaxed it made me 'angry' and I had to use the bathroom like 100 times before the reception even started! When it was all over I came home with SUCH A MIGRAINE! Next time, I think Ill just try meditation. LOL
im sorry you had such a tough night..... lots of hugs for you.. Hope you are feeling better!!