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Does anyone else feel this way?

prncssrachel Posted:

Does anyone else feel this way?

I went out to lunch yesterday with two single GFs of mine, and one of them brought a friend who is also engaged. Well, needless to say, my friend's friend, would NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT WEDDING STUFF! And it really annoyed me. I don't know why, but I just feel like I am annoying when I talk and talk about it to my friends, which I rarely do. Does anyone else feel that way? I just feel like, I would rather talk about it here, where everyone is going through it, rather than have other people wish I would shut up. But I just feel uncomfortable in general when I talk about it. Like other people are going to think I'm wedding obsessed or something. Maybe I'm just looking into this too much.....

swags1016 Posted:

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I know what you mean. I feel the same way. When people even ask about the wedding plans I try not to go into too much detail so I don't bore them.

LnP2003 Posted:

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here here!!!! in total agreement!

nrvbrd Posted:

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Same here!!!!

prncssrachel Posted:

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It's just the weirdest thing, I mean, I guess it's mostly due to girls like the one I met yesterday. But also, I think it helps to have this website, so I can go on and on and on without feeling self conscious about it! Thanks LIWEDDINGS! haha

tracyg Posted:

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I'm the same way. I try to keep it short. But I blabber on and on with FI and my family... hehe i don't care if i annoy them.

Sage10.03 Posted:

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TOTALLY AGREE...I actually shy away from talking about it unless it's with another bride or someone is GENUINELY interested.

maysie18 Posted:

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I am EXACTLY the same way!! You are not alone!
yabbobay Posted:

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I think this is why this (and others) board is so beneifical...my friends didn't have to hear any of my wedding blah blah blah...
I could yap away here...
julybride444 Posted:

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Totally agree. When I first got engaged, it's ALL I could talk about for a while-I just couldn't make myself shut up. Not I try to really avoid talking about it. It does annoy me when my BMs act annoyed though...but I have to remember that they are all single with no plans even close...they really can't relate.

danigirl0 Posted:

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YES! im the same way!!
Stavia Posted:

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Now, I wonder if I'm annoying because I love to talk about my wedding, but I really only do so if someone asks about it, which most people do. If it comes up in casual conversation w/ a stranger I try to keep it short. Maybe it all depends on what it is you tak about?

MrsTC Posted:

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no i feel that way too sometimes you are not the only one
Betty Posted:

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That's why I L O V E coming on this site!!!! I can actually talk to people who understand me and care what I'm saying about weddings
Chelley Posted:

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absolutely!

eternityawaits Posted:

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Most of the time I keep quiet. Some of the girls I work with though are really into it - One of them even helped me plan my menu! (We ended up inviting her, too) Now when it's slow at work we try to get the flowers done too!
pschica Posted:

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i do the same thing- some of my firends try to pry the info out of me....but i just enver want anyoen to feel funny or anythign...

NYCMeghan Posted:

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I got stuck in a dinner this weekend with a newlywed who could talk about nothing but wedding plans...it really got to be too much. I love being able to talk about all of my wedding concerns/questions/issues here, leaving me able to be a normal functioning member of society!!

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