Does anyone else get annoyed when someone jokes you are a 'bridezilla'?

I understand SOME brides go off the deep end a little, but I think I have been fair and havent asked too much of anybody, just that they do things in a timely manner so noone has to rush at the last minute. But Im like that for everything, I hate doing things last minute. And it annoys me when I ask someone to do something, like remind them to get their BM dress altered (wedding is in 2 months) and immediately they start in with the 'here comes bridezilla'. This is the most important day of my life and I have every right to want things how I want them. (again, nothing too unreasonable) Anyone who HASNT tried to plan a wedding shouldnt be calling anyone Bridezilla.

IE:
-called a bridezilla when I asked a BM when she was getting her dress altered.
-Friend called me bridezilla when I told her I couldnt babysit her kid overnight a week before the wedding.

These are the things I am talking about.