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Does anyone else have a bridal party from hell!!

ajlgmm815 Posted:

Does anyone else have a bridal party from hell!!

So As everyone probabyl knows i have had nothng but headaches with my BP. My one sister is giving me grief for every decision i make and then get my mom in on the fun! My FH had one too many groomsmen and wont help me to decide what to do? and barely talks to his Best Man and one of the groomsman lives in another state we dont even know if he is still going to be in it he didnt even remember what day or wedding was! and besides all that my sisters dont want to look at BM dresses with me because ' i have so much time' they feel it is stupid! I'am ready to ditch the BP all together !
PROBM Posted:

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sorry
JennyAPH Posted:

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I have one BM from hell I can relate sort of.

I am sorry you are going through all that
Utterhappiness Posted:

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I am sorry that this is happening to you

I wish I could help... for now I will just offer hugs
Dani777 Posted:

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Yes...my one sister is totally a BM from hell.... and it's totally crazy. She started a fight with me on Friday that my Mom was paying for the WHOLE wedding! RIIIGHT! She's giving not even HALF of the RH... AUGH! I was on the verge of kicking her out, but my other sis calmbed me down. Don't worry...everything will work out OK. Planning a wedding really shows who your real friends are ... family or not. Good luck with everything and try not to stress out too much.

gina409 Posted:

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im so sorry u r going through this...
flairforfashion Posted:

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I think people can relate. I have one that I love but she is not making the decision process very easy. And, we fired a Groomsman last week.
ajlgmm815 Posted:

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Flairforfashion- how did you fire your groomsman? was he upset?

ChrissyV729 Posted:

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Wow ... that's horrible. You would probably be better of firing all of them. What's your sisters problem, they should be excited. I hope everything gets better for you. You don't need them, you have all of us here to help you!!

MEMEJOR Posted:

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soo sorry
WinterGrl09 Posted:

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Yes and my story can go on and on and on... FM me if you need any help.

flairforfashion Posted:

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Posted by ajlgmm815

Flairforfashion- how did you fire your groomsman? was he upset?



Well, FH gave him tons of chances to come around. He was being flaky and we hadn't seen him more than three times since April. We kind of drifted apart. Finally after two times after telling him that we felt like he was blowing us off, FH texted him and told him that he was upset that Mike hasn't made an attempt to come around and that he doesn't want any awkwardness during the wedding considering we haven't seen him in ages and yada yada.

So, Mike took it hard but you know what- F him. I told Mike myself that actions speak louder than words. He was bs'ing how his feelings were hurt and that he won't come to the wedding. As far as I am concerned, I could care less. I don't need someone at my wedding who is less than a friend.
Eweluska17 Posted:

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Sorry

April_Luv Posted:

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Wow! sorry to hear they are THINKING OF THEMSELVES....
You know it it absolutly nothing wrong with just you and FH standing at that alter!!!
If people cant stay in their place and make things stress free-get rid of them!!

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