I send out a Bridesmaid's Newsletter 1X a month... I sent it out just about a week ago.
One of my BM suggested that all the BMs & MOHs get together to hang out one night. Nothing formal or anything, just a hang out. I asked if anyone would be interested, and if they were to thow out some days/times that would be good them.
NO ONE answered me.
3 of them are out of state, so I didn't expect them to. And one of them has a young baby, so I didn't expect her to either. One of them is the girl who suggested it, so obv I didn't expect her to.
But that still leaves 7 girls, and no one answered. Am I weird to feel like I asked the people who are closest to me to hang out and they just did not answer at all?
It was just going to be a fun night of chatting, dinner, drinks, etc.
I don't want to be a beeyatch; I'm just a little like whaa?
marinai7
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Hmmm, when did you speak to them? Did you call them or email? If email, sometimes people don't check their emails often.
JAAMS
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Hmmm, when did you speak to them? Did you call them or email? If email, sometimes people don't check their emails often.
That's true. I might just plan something and tell them a different way.
They HAVE responded in the past when I've asked a q though, so I think they read it
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How long ago was this? I'm an offender in cases like this. Sometimes it's just that I'm busy or don't see the message/text and then read it, try to note to myself to respond later and never respond. Give it time and if not, send out another message.
marinai7
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I would just call them and that way you know they know about it.
StaceyWill
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I don't think you're being a beeyatch-maybe you can e-mail them one more time- Also, I love the idea of the bridesmaid newsletter-sounds cute
We are actually having a get together at our house this saturday for everyone in the bridal party. We sent out actual invitations that way everyone would know for sure its on. Its guys/girls and parents...
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I went through the same thing. I was planning something for all of my BM's to meet with each other and hang out. It took me like two months to finally get a date for everyone. People were not responding to me and always had something better to do (that was not better!) I had a few Bridezilla moments at this time. It su cks.
I still send out emails all the time about wedding ideas, pictures, etc., and it takes like weeks for people to respond. Like how hard is it to send an email?
little j
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i think you should throw out dates rather than ask for input...one person might be waiting to see a reply. sorry about this
