Does anyone elses FH worry constantly...

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Sep 10, 2008 04:15 PM

Does anyone elses FH worry constantly...

About money??? Mine is always worried that we will never have enough, blah blah...I mean, I worry to but not as much as he does...

amandah75 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 04:19 PM

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I worry more than he does. But that's our relationship. I'm the worrier and he's very relaxed.

T E R I Posted: Sep 10, 2008 04:20 PM

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Yes, but more so now that we are in contract to buy a house, I think i worry more than he does though. I always ask him if he thinks we can afford the house and the wedding

JenBill61210 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 04:20 PM

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its the opposite with us! i'll say something like 'how are we going to afford the wedding, and a house' etc.. and then he'll get all mad and tell me to stop!

Yankees2323 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 04:40 PM

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Posted by Mrs Z To Be

About money??? Mine is always worried that we will never have enough, blah blah...I mean, I worry to but not as much as he does...

sounds like my FH!!!!! funny how we saved 15,000 to buy furniture and pay for our apt and realtor in 3 mnths but yet he doesnt think we will save 22,000 in 2 yrs..... he wants a 2nd job but he only applied to one place i dunno what hes waiting 4... i feel like im killing myself working cuz i want everything and hes like ohh i work so hard at my 1st job blah blah... lol

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 04:57 PM

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mine doesn't stop talking about money!! I hate it, it drives me absolutely crazy!!!!!!

LouMar2010 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 05:01 PM

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he worries about it a lot more than me!

RitasEngaged Posted: Sep 10, 2008 05:04 PM

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I worry.

He thinks money grows on trees!!!

Kimmypie143 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 05:24 PM

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we fight all the time about money. I get bord of just sitting home everynight so i say lets go somewhere and he flips out about money. He saved enough for my ring in 6 months i think this wedding shouldn't be a problem. We are also trying to buy a house so thats where things get hard, we'll get through it.

ShannonSoon Posted: Sep 10, 2008 05:46 PM

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He worries about it more than me. It's quite stressful to have to save for all these big things at once (house, wedding, etc.)

mosh424 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 06:03 PM

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Mine is def. a worry wort!!!!! about everything

Nurse12985 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 06:41 PM

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FH never worries about money really. I worry alot though. He wants to go out to eat offten but I always tell him no because im terrified we won't reach our $$ goals. I save every penny I can, he usted to save nothing but he has gotten 400% better now. At this rate we will be able to get a house in 2 years.

eternitybride Posted: Sep 10, 2008 07:03 PM

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he worries occasionally, but I am the one really watching the check book

SparklingBride10 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 07:22 PM

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I tend to worry more.

Reymiliz Posted: Sep 10, 2008 07:58 PM

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he is like the biggest money worryins guy out there ...lol when he wants to spend it he will
but if he thinks its 'dumb' he make a fuss about it

SummerBride10 Posted: Sep 10, 2008 08:08 PM

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We both worry!! I think I freak out about it more though.

CloudNine Posted: Sep 11, 2008 07:52 AM

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oddly enough its me that does all the worrying...it actually worries me that he doesnt worry lol

stinenandy2010 Posted: Sep 11, 2008 08:03 AM

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FH is cheap so he always worries about money....especially when I come home with a new kate spade wallet!

Dazzlin217 Posted: Sep 11, 2008 08:48 AM

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Posted by Mrs Z To Be

About money??? Mine is always worried that we will never have enough, blah blah...I mean, I worry to but not as much as he does...

this is my FH to the T!! i hate it. i know we are going to be tight with money, but i feel like he is so much more worried about it then i am

christine2010 Posted: Sep 11, 2008 09:22 AM

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atleast mine isn't the only one. he is worse then ever about money. when his dad passed he was the only beneficiary of the life insurance so he is super protective of that money. he put it into cd's, mutual funds, retirement plan & just started his own life insurance policy. he is constantly checking on it. if something goes down like .2% he freaks out for days.