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Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

Karacg Posted:

Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

Just curious....

Donna Posted:

Re: Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

I answered the poll wrong - I'm supposed to be 'all month long'

This is one thing DH and I discussed so we make sure to be together whether or not it's a 'good' day.
FeliciaDA Posted:

Re: Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

I have to be honest - TTC and charting and being on a 'schedule' has sort of sucked some of the fun and romance out of our sex life to a point

HOWEVER overall, we try to make it as fun as when we werent TTC. And hey, DH certainly isn't complaining when I attack him and tell him we have to BD such and such amounts of time in a given timeframe

But I do worry that its going to become 'routine' or 'clinical' and I so don't want having sex to become a chore
computergirl Posted:

Re: Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??


I have to be honest - TTC and charting and being on a 'schedule' has sort of sucked some of the fun and romance out of our sex life to a point


Amen.
lorsin Posted:

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Like spontaneous, just for fun, middle of the day, for no reason sex?? Ummm...no.

We are more in the 'I have no idea when I ovulate so we need to BD every other day until AF comes even if we aren't in the mood at all' kind of place right now.

But I will say that we've been trying to keep having fun during the scheduled BD times.



For now it's working, although I echo Felicia's comments and I've started to worry about how long we can keep this up without it gettng sterile and chore-like.
Licia Posted:

Re: Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

After last month of sex to TTC I saw that it took the romance out of it.
This month we don't want to do 'It' for any other reason but for the simple fact that we love to. And if we conceive at least we'll know how we felt during it, pure fun, rather than it being like a chore
LisaW Posted:

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I don't even have sex to TTC anymore


redstar Posted:

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well, for me there is a definite difference between sex and bding.

There is no fun in Bding.....not after a year and a half.

Next cycle, just like lisa, I won't even have to Bd, to ttc. ...


and I am completely sick of the people who say, , at least you will have fun trying.....i feel like shooting those people.
shoppie Posted:

Re: Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

as much as we can ;)
I'm the type that wants it several times a day -TMI :)

guess that will all change once we start TTC and getting all stressed about it. now its just FUN!
dm24angel Posted:

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fun...HA HA HA HA..I wish ( actually DH wishes! LOL LOL )

We try to make the BD'ing fun, because then Im kinda out of it for a about a week or so...but we try to do it a LOT in that time period, and we dont think of it yet as just making a baby, so hopefully we get PG before it becomes old and takes any sort of bad effect on us.
btrflygrl Posted:

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oops, answered wrong...it's all and fun and games for us! Getting PG was a plus!

Hazeleyes33 Posted:

Re: Does anyone have sex for FUN anymore??

That is what happened to us ttc our daughter. It was turning into another job. We decided to just play it by ear and the following month I got pregnant!

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