Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

luvbud Posted: Feb 03, 2007 11:07 PM

Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I didn't know if I was suppossed to do a Grooms cake. Do I give the cake and a gift to my FH. Or do I give the gift on our wedding night.

jenneva Posted: Feb 03, 2007 11:09 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I gave the grooms cake during rehearsal dinner.

Michy Posted: Feb 03, 2007 11:13 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I think I am going to do it as a suprise but get it shaped as a guitar b/c he's obsessed and I know he will love it!

bettybcafe Posted: Feb 03, 2007 11:14 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

Posted by jenneva

I gave the grooms cake during rehearsal dinner.

It's not necessary to give your FH a grooms cake..its a southern tradition. But if you decide to do it its done during the rehearsal dinner and you would then give ur FH his present that day too.

MF9282 Posted: Feb 04, 2007 11:14 AM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I don't think we are going to do that. He will be happy saved him money

Summer07Bride Posted: Feb 04, 2007 11:27 AM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I am not going to do a groom's cake. 1. My FH probably has never heard of one 2. We need to save money and I heard those can cost quite a bit.

tricia3381 Posted: Feb 04, 2007 11:30 AM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

Posted by MF9282

I don't think we are going to do that. He will be happy saved him money

same here! mine would be like its very nice, but you should have save your money. I'm still thinking of doing one even though i know i shouldn't spend the $. He loves poker, so i'm thinking of doing something along those lines.

MattandTricia07 Posted: Feb 04, 2007 12:02 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I am getting one made for our rehearsal dinner

HamptonsBride Posted: Feb 04, 2007 12:22 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

not doing one...FH doesn't like sweets anyway..i'll save the $ and put it towards his wedding gift!

milana Posted: Feb 04, 2007 12:23 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

we are not doing one

Hamptonsbride06 Posted: Feb 04, 2007 12:23 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

I surprised him at the wedding, we he got there it was displayed on a table , he was shocked and loved it.

Pencils Posted: Feb 04, 2007 01:04 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

You don't have to. I think I'm going to because we're going to have a cake buffet with several different options, and, besides, I know it will make him ridiculously happy if I arrange for a Giants cake. My sister will have a heart attack, but it's not her wedding.

miss nee Posted: Feb 04, 2007 07:47 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

i guess im off the hook .. fh doesnt eat sweets

Dee606 Posted: Feb 04, 2007 07:49 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

We aren't doing one b/c we are having a venitian table aside from our cake.

rkl1130 Posted: Feb 04, 2007 08:18 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

Posted by tricia3381

Posted by MF9282

I don't think we are going to do that. He will be happy saved him money

same here! mine would be like its very nice, but you should have save your money. I'm still thinking of doing one even though i know i shouldn't spend the $. He loves poker, so i'm thinking of doing something along those lines.

I'm thinking of doing one in a poker theme too! I know I shouldn't spend the extra money, but I think it would be something nice to do for him since attention is usually not placed on the groom and it would be a nice surprise.

EastEndBride Posted: Feb 04, 2007 08:28 PM

Re: Does everyone do a Grooms Cake

not doing a groom's cake, never heard of it until wedding websites brought it up. i'm sure FH never heard of it & would rather I didn't spend the cash on that- he doesn't even like cake!