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Does everyone get a Save the Date?

alioop4282 Posted:

Does everyone get a Save the Date?

Do I send one to everyone or just the people who are out of town?

Thanks!
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

Re: Does everyone get a Save the Date?

I sent one to everyone except my co-workers.

Boop2704 Posted:

Re: Does everyone get a Save the Date?

Send them to OOT's and people that you are 100% positive you will be inviting to the wedding.

We didn't send them to co workers on the off chance we might not be there anymore and then would feel obligated to invite them after asking them to save that date!!
kam0813 Posted:

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I sent them to out of towners and everyone we're definitely inviting to the wedding. I'm not giving them to my co-workers though.

jenheartsrob Posted:

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and how far in advance do you send a STD?

kam0813 Posted:

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Posted by jenheartsrob

and how far in advance do you send a STD?



well the timeline that i've been going by says 12-18 months before the wedding
AlliNMatt06 Posted:

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I never got them, and my mother asked me the other day if I ordered them yet. So, I am only getting them for out of town guests, about 25. I have 8 months till my wedding. It gives them a little more time to book flights and take off work.

MayBride06 Posted:

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Posted by dleeny

I sent one to everyone except my co-workers.



ditto. Was not sure who I was definately inviting!
lrs2005 Posted:

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Posted by Boop2704

Send them to OOT's and people that you are 100% positive you will be inviting to the wedding.

We didn't send them to co workers on the off chance we might not be there anymore and then would feel obligated to invite them after asking them to save that date!!


We did the same thing
lilpie19 Posted:

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I gave them out at my e-party...people I knew I was definitely going to be invited to my wedding.

DUCKS2001 Posted:

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i sent to everyone except some maybes, i gave to the coworkerws i want and am close to

October Bliss Posted:

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We weren't going to do them at all, but now we are going to send out a handful to those OOT people that we definitely want to come. Probably 25 or so.

stephensvalentine Posted:

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We sent them to everybody. We included our hotel phone number so people could block early. We sent them about 7 months before the wedding.

CJStein Posted:

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We just sent them to out of towners and anyone we thought would use the hotel where we blocked rooms.

Mrs.A2006 Posted:

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We sent them to OOT family and friends and also people we were 100% about inviting to the wedding. We did not send them to co-workers or friends we were not sure about.

smurray Posted:

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We have 145 on our list, but I'm only sending to OOT guest, which is not even half of our guest

JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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Posted by CJStein

We just sent them to out of towners and anyone we thought would use the hotel where we blocked rooms.



that's what we did, too

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