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Ask you to have a girl in your BP that was his friend or family?
he didn't ask me to ask his sister, i already wanted her to be a bm, but he asked his cousin with out asking me first. i refused to have her in my bridal party, so i had to tell her sorry but i can't have anymore people it would be to much money. i also asked his nieces to be flower girls and nephew to be ring bearer.
Yep two cousins who he never sees....he called and left voice mails and emails and they never answered him...I knew it was gonna happen but he learned the hard way.....that was about 3 months ago. It didn't bother me that he asked them, I just don't know them and didn't feel close enough to them to ask.
DH pretty much made a big deal about having his 2 older sisters in the BP, and I love his sisters but I have a lot of close friends that I would have rather have had. DH had my brother as a gm but I could care less if he had him or not. So I had to have his 2 sisters. 2 of my friends were pretty hurt that I didn't ask them but I didn't want a huge BP.
