does the bridal party need to be equal?

does the bridal party need to be equal?

So i have 3 Bm 1 MOH and 1 Jr.Bm and my FH has 3 GM 1 Bm... So my question is do you think i should get a JrGM or its not a big deal w.the JrBm dosnt have a partneer?

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I don't think it is a big deal. We are having 1 Jr. BM and no match for her.

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I don't think mine will be equal, either. The wedding I went to last night wasn't, and one BM walked down with two GM. I went to another wedding a couple of years ago, and one BM actually walked down by herself. If your Jr. BM doesn't mind walking alone, it may even make her feel more special

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Agreed it does not matter. She can walk by herself. BUt then again if you have the BP dance together for first dance...who will she dance with?

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i had 5 girls and 4 guys

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no i would just leave it the way it is!

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this was one of my concerns who will she dance with or should i just have one of her cousins come out at the moment n dance w.her.(shes only going to be 11 so dancing w.a cousin isnt a big deal -i dont think atleast!) .?? is that a good idea?

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I have 2 BM, 1 MOH, 2 GM, 1BM and the JB. She is also 11 and I did not give her a partner. I am not having my JB dance, but if she wanted to I can always ask a family member. Don't worry much about it, ask her if she would feel comfortable doing that.

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Just leave it the way it is ... that is fine !

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jr gm is not necessary dont complicate things cuz things like that can get out of control extremely fast...i only have 1 mh and 4 bm my FH has 1 bm and 6 gm and i didnt want to pick someone just so everything was even. kinda felt it made the others seem less special

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mine is uneven. 10 bm's, 2 moh's, 8 gm's and 1 bm and 2 flowergirls!

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Mine is uneven too, no big deal!

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NO I dont think u need to make it even mine was uneven until FH asked one more GM but I was fine with it being uneven

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My wedding party is not equal. We have one less BM than GM - some lucky lady will have two guys escort her down the aisle!

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The sides definitely don't need to be even! I stressed myself out over this in the beginning b/c I'm a freak and I like even numbers, but then I lost one of my girls, and FH had to add one other guy, and I got over it. I don't think any of our friends weddings had even numbers of guys and girls, and it looked fine.

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The BP is usually the people closest to the Bride and groom. I haven't seen an equal BP for ages, including mine and two weddings I went to this month. With everything you have to do, don't worry about it unless you really have to.

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Nobody seems to be equal anymore, it's unrealistic. It will look beautiful with what you have.

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not at all!