Does the drama ever end???

pinkgirl Posted: Sep 29, 2004 04:08 PM

Does the drama ever end???

My FH's bachelor party is Saturday and they are going to AC overnight. Meanwhile, he is in Phoenix right now for traing for his job. So I am trying to coordinate the carpool to AC. He is driving with my dad, my uncle and my sis's boyfriend. There is another car of friends. The problem is that everyone in my family wants to get picked up separately and they each say 'What's the big deal?' But my FH is SO annoyed cause he doesn't want to make a million stops. I am trying to fix it but I feel frazzled! I feel like it is so minor and is getting blown up into this big thing!

Janine24 Posted: Sep 29, 2004 04:12 PM

Re: Does the drama ever end???

wow...u r nice to coordinate his bachelor party...

I feel the same way with things... everything so minor becomes a big deal... I think we have so many emotions going through our heads right now that everything seems major... just keep in mind that everything will work itself out somehow...

nferrandi Posted: Sep 29, 2004 04:13 PM

Re: Does the drama ever end???

I think you should just make it clear to everyone that it's not fair for your FH to have to drive around picking everyone up. Pick a meeting spot and time and tell everyone to be there. How they get there is up to them. I can't tell you how many things I've dropped FH off for, they can certainly hitch a ride with someone else. It's FH's weekend, not theirs.

jfabbride Posted: Sep 29, 2004 04:33 PM

Re: Does the drama ever end???

Posted by pinkgirl

My FH's bachelor party is Saturday and they are going to AC overnight. Meanwhile, he is in Phoenix right now for traing for his job. So I am trying to coordinate the carpool to AC. He is driving with my dad, my uncle and my sis's boyfriend. There is another car of friends. The problem is that everyone in my family wants to get picked up separately and they each say 'What's the big deal?' But my FH is SO annoyed cause he doesn't want to make a million stops. I am trying to fix it but I feel frazzled! I feel like it is so minor and is getting blown up into this big thing!

That's funny...my FH is going to AC this weekend for his bachelor party. They are staying at the Borgata. I told him that someone better be coming to pick him up because I am not dropping him off somewhere.

eroxgirl Posted: Sep 29, 2004 04:47 PM

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A bunch of people called DH last minute and expected him to drive everyone to his bachelor party....I dropped them all off and they were all beat for a ride home at the end of the night. They had to find cabs at 4 a.m. and my DH got stuck paying for some of his stupid friends' cab fare!!

Remind these people that this is your FH's bachelor party -- they need to be making sure that your FH is taken care of, and not the other way around.