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Does this person just want to be in my bridal party?

wiggleit28 Posted:

Does this person just want to be in my bridal party?

O.k.--I truly do not wish to sound obnoxious but I have this friend with whom I used to be very close but rarely talk with/see anymore. Ever since she found out i'm engaged she has been trying to chat with me everyday, making suggestions of RHs, places to get dresses etc...So, I can't but think that she just wants into my bridal party. I know it sounds kind of sick but she lives for this kind of stuff and I know how her mind works!!

I feel that she's gonna be really mad at me if I don't put her in my bridal part but...I don't wanna!!!! vent over~!
Thats-What-She-Said Posted:

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If you don't wanna then don't. It's that simple. Maybe she is just wedding obsessed. I know I was before I got engaged.

cmrcmr0430 Posted:

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You don't have to put her in your wedding party...I just put friends and family I knew for more than 5 years in mine. She may really like wedding planning....I know I did!! I helped out everyone under the sun!!
Tetelove Posted:

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If you don't want her in your party then don't...she will get over it. I would only have those in your party that YOU want to have there.

VCanizalez Posted:

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If u dont want her, Then U dont have to have her in ur Bridal Party!!!

It is ur wedding Honey... U do what u wnt
jenn_eric Posted:

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It's your day, and therefore up to you. If you don't want her in the party then don't include her in such a manner. If you really feel bad about not including her then maybe have her do a reading or something or invite her to the shower/bachelorette party but don't feel obligated to include her in a capacity that you aren't comfortable.

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