don't answer the phone the week of your wedding

so my wedding is in 2 days. nothing is stopping me from being happy so don't get me wrong. i'm just warning everyone that crazy annoying things are going to happen beyond our control so be prepared and don't let it get to you.

5 people have cancelled this week. just got a phone call that my cousin is bringing her baby to my no-kids wedding. it was either that or lose another 3 guests. so i had no choice but to say yes.

the best man's girlfriend is complaining about wanting to go in the limo, about the hotel being far away and the reception being even further away. she was yelling at fh last night on the phone and arguing about directions and times and locations etc. she has to leave early to feed her dog, she wants to be announced and introduced at the wedding. she wants to know why the rh is so far away. she wants to know how we expect her to take a shuttle bus with no one she knows. best man couldn't even afford his tux, he had no idea he had to pay for it, $99.

lots of things are going wrong. everyone's complaining about their tuxes fitting, not fitting, what they're wearing to the rh dinner. can't come to this, can't do this, etc. guests are hurting their backs, their babysitters are in the hospital, their dates are cancelling, their grandmothers are dying, and they all need directions. i guess the direction cards are in the garbage. they want to make sure it's ok that they give us a gift in a few weeks, months, years. they just can't afford it.

i guess your wedding is only important to you, and people don't understand what it's like until they go through it, or once they do go through it they forget what it's like. well none of this matters right, i'm getting married at a beautiful place! i've lost some friends in the process, people i thought were friends at least. people haven't even had the respect to rsvp, and it's truly been the most stressful month of my life.

so ladies, do NOT answer the phone the week of your wedding, unless it's your parents.

dont let it bother you, people suck.

Your wedding will be beautiful and perfect!

To quote Gina from another post...

'Some people are like slinkys. They have no purpose, but make you smile when they fall down stairs.'

Hang in there!!!! Everything's goona be wonderful!!!

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Posted by caligirl87

To quote Gina from another post...

'Some people are like slinkys. They have no purpose, but make you smile when they fall down stairs.'

Hang in there!!!! Everything's goona be wonderful!!!

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That is a great quote!

Hang in there. You have a great attitude and seem like you are taking everything in stride. I'm sure your day will be wonderful!

I cant get over the girlfriend wanting to know why RH was so far away, wanting to go in the limo and being announced!!!!! ***???????
I am sorry this day is not about you BM girlfriend, you dont have to come!!!

Deep breaths and just think in 2 days you will be married to the love of your life.
Good luck and Cognrats!!

that's horrible!! i honestly will never understand people..

but to look at the bright side im sure for every s*cky person you're having to deal with there's two more who care about greatly..

have a wonderful wedding!!

I really think you're post is the first time Ive heard the real process of getting married truely summed up... People have their own agendas at your wedding... they forget how much pressure your already under and bother you with all their petty bs... Im not at that stage yet where all hell is breaking lose, but Im bracing myself for it when it happens within the last few weeks leading up to the wedding... I am sure I'll be dropping the F bomb many times to random people

Just keep thinking how beautiful life will be once the wedding is said and done and you just get to enjoy married life with the person you love and forget about the rest of the world for a bit

LOL and as i just got done writing that, i check my email and the 1 thing i asked fh's fam to do during this whole process, they couldnt get done you just have to laugh at this point but its sooo freaking redic

You ar going to have a beautiful wedding and all you need to remember this is the start of a beautiful life with your best friend. Hang in there

Try not to let everyone get to you...It is your day SO ENJOY IT!!!!

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Posted by caligirl87

To quote Gina from another post...

'Some people are like slinkys. They have no purpose, but make you smile when they fall down stairs.'

Hang in there!!!! Everything's goona be wonderful!!!

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that is just great! And holds some truth. Dazey...get it out of your head.... this day you've been waiting so long for is here. It is going to be wonderful.... have one of your BMs smack the best man's gf... sounds like a nagging witch. Plus, it'll make you smile. No worries...you're going to have a great wedding.

omg wow just focus on you marrying the man you want to be with, they not there its there loss.

And im sorry but who the hell does the best mans girlfriend think she is???She wants to ride in the limo, she wants to be introduced?? B**tch please!!!!!! not to stir up anything but she would have been checked and put right back in her place very quickly.

thank you all so much for all the nice things you've said. i wanted so bad to tell this girl off but fh wouldn't let me and it's more important that we get through this without fighting or added stress. so i'm letting it all roll off me. i know that i won't even know any of these things are going on and once the wedding is over i'm gonna finally tell everyone where to stick it!!! thank you all again

I am going through the same drama except for the crazy woman that wants to be to be announced and introduced at the wedding.... hang in there hun ....all that matters right now is you and your FH forget about the rest .... ppl that bs you are truly NOT friends that's what I have learned along the way!

wow! Hang in there - it really can be stressful. I had some drama the week of my wedding also. One of my bridesmaids became HORRIBLE and we haven't been the same since (I still barely understand it). And the Bestman had to fly in the day before which made us about 10 minutes late to the rehearsal and our officiant kind of yelled at us There was definitely a few days of total stress, but I just tried to breathe and not let it get to me. This was the biggest adventure of my life (thus far) and I was not about to miss a MOMENT by allowing people to ruin my happiness. Just try to relax and don't let the small things get to you. It'll be a great day.