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Dont know why Im so sad

VogueBride Posted:

Dont know why Im so sad

I dont knwo whats wrong with me....im just so 'blah' about this wedding
Yesterday, i had problems with my hotel....but i also found out my dress and all the bm dresses are in.
my moh however that is preggers after much time, decided she wanted to keep her dress and have it altered accordingly...im fine with whatever she wants to do, i just want her comfy...but then last night says she found a diff dress she wants to order..im fine with it, just another little thing.
maybe just too much is going on in the past few days and im just stresses, but im just not a happy planning bride. i look at pics of other girls and their weddings or dress fittings or hair trials etc....and everyone has a style and knows exactly what they want..and i feel in that area i am lacking
sorry, just had to vent
LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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We all get into slumps now and then. Just forget about wedding stuff for awhile. Maybe pick up again after the holidays.
JessicaM. Posted:

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Lynn, it WILL get better. I was feeling exactly that way a few weeks ago. Nothing interested me, I was sick of it all, and I felt like the only thing I was accomplishing was making myself crazy.

then the mood suddenly lifted and I am a little more interested. Don't push yourself- we still have time. when you get that spark, do what you want to do.

I JUST decided on my hair this week, my dress isn't completed yet, I have no idea about make up and jewelry...but that's ok. 4 1/2 months is time enough to decide. I am going to take this time and enjoy the holidays (my favorite time of year). Pop in a Christmas CD and do the same!

conigs25 Posted:

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Whatis it you wish you were feeling?

Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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I'm sick of it too and I just started! There is just so much to think about and my head feels like it might explode. FH and I started to register last night and it almost put me over the edge. Hahaha. I'm thinking maybe we should have eloped or considered planning a wedding for less than 265 people.
roxyspark Posted:

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Here's some hugs
I know it is easier said than done, but you can not compare yourself and your wedding planning to other people, it will drive you crazy.
Take some time off, go get a massage or drink some wine.
And relax.
BTW A lot of people go through this.
CalJoe0124 Posted:

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Oh boy dont you love that emotional roller coaster.
I am sure everything will work out, one of those weeks where you just feel sad, we all have those.
Hang in there, better days will come!
VogueBride Posted:

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Thank you all so much. my mom went and looked at the hotels for me today (its hard living in a nother state when things like this happen) and i think that is all pretty much taken care of. i think i will just put everything on hold (as much as i can) till after christmas. Thanks girls!!!

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