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Don't tell the Bride that!!!

MNM0805 Posted:

Don't tell the Bride that!!!

I told you girls about one of my bridesmaids(my cousin) missing my bachelorette party because she has a bsb/nkotb concert) well this is what she tells me today:

'So im not going to hawaii (she was supposed to get a teaching job there) But I got a summer school job so I gotta hope they let me take fri(the day of my wedding) off.'

I responded telling her I would hope they let her take off, if not call in sick. Also, told her to tell them she will be out of town that day. She's coming to Massapequa the night before the wedding, for the rehearsal, so she will already be here.

I'm sorry but don't tell me you don't know if you can get off of work. You already bought the dress and shoes and you're IN THE BRIDAL PARTY!!

My mom told my Grandma this, Grandma responds:

'What is she talking about? She's in the bridal party so there aren't any excuses to not be there!'

This is the same bridesmaid who gave my MOH problems when they were buying my shower gift. All I know is, you definitely find out who people really are, when you have a wedding!

I'm definitely annoyed! I don't need to know any of this. Am I wrong to be annoyed about this? I'm not even annoyed about her not making my b-party, but my wedding? I just don't get it!
Jmrosa1 Posted:

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you have every right to be annoyed!!!! And you really do find out the true colors....same issue with one of my BM who is also family. And nothing but a headache.

Kelli218 Posted:

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Again.... people are INSANE!!!!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Definitely find out who people are when there's a wedding involved.

Sorry you are going through this!
MNM0805 Posted:

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Posted by Kelli218

Again.... people are INSANE!!!!



They seriously are and she's family!!
Kelli218 Posted:

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Posted by MNM0805


Posted by Kelli218

Again.... people are INSANE!!!!



They seriously are and she's family!!



We have to GTG.. So I can tell you about MY COUSIN (MOH) who had done NOTHING!!!!!!! I have been planning my shower and I am THE BRIDE!!!! LOL.... We are going to The Good Life now to relieve some stress
MNM0805 Posted:

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Posted by Kelli218


Posted by MNM0805


Posted by Kelli218

Again.... people are INSANE!!!!



They seriously are and she's family!!



We have to GTG.. So I can tell you about MY COUSIN (MOH) who had done NOTHING!!!!!!! I have been planning my shower and I am THE BRIDE!!!! LOL.... We are going to The Good Life now to relieve some stress



OMG we definitely need to GTG! Thats insane that you're planning your own shower!
snowflakes11 Posted:

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thats insane! what the heck is wrong with people! WHY SAY YES when you asked her to be in it if she is acting like she wants no part of it now!

UGHHHH sorry for the stress!
MNM0805 Posted:

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Posted by snowflakes11

thats insane! what the heck is wrong with people! WHY SAY YES when you asked her to be in it if she is acting like she wants no part of it now!

UGHHHH sorry for the stress!



Seriously! She told me after that she doesn't even know her boss yet so she won't know until July. I just applied for a job in a school and told the woman hiring that I can't work the first two weeks in August. Needless to say, I got the job anyways! They are having a sub cover me. Yet, my cousin can't do this!

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